LOL!!!!!! Could be more interesting if the other one uses VGC as well.

"Today, I told my new boyfriend of 2 months how much I love him and can't wait to take our relationship to the next level. Then, I checked the forums on my favourite videogame site and found out that he, in fact, already has a affectionate and loyal girlfriend whom he'll never break up with for 3 years. I don't know what's worse, the fact he described me as nothing but a horny sexual object or the fact that the only reason I found out is because I joined the site in hope of having more common languages between us and only found that he was boasting his productive adventures with different women. FML"

I have to keep this short but my tip would be what I do when I don't have the stomach to break it up: Let it bleed to death and have the decision be hers. Become wayyyy too busy for her, that sort of thing.

@signalstar

no, he's being brutal towards his long time girlfriend

ok...'bout to say... u should've have broke up with ur gf if she cant satisfy ur needs anymore. Cheating will lead to horrible ending....whew ok finally i'm able to type my response i cant stop lauhing on that "profile picture of a "dog smiling" x] makes me laugh while reading lol. plz make it stop staring LoL =))

i'm pretty sure most people on here haven't got one girlfriend let alone two,

i've actually got three but anyway if its true enjoy them both while you can,he's not married is he and he is still young,we all live and learn,

plus who's to say that both girls aren't cheating on him,you never know

Me too.

Now please.

I have been in love one time in my life. For our one year anniversary I made plans to have dinner/lunch atop Sydney Tower (the tallest building in our city/country).

Two weeks before our anniversary she cheated on me. We tried desperately for 6-8 months to get through it, but it never happened.

Nearly two years later, I am only just over that devastating occurrence.

What you are doing is wrong, for so many reasons that have nothing to do with political or religious alignment, upbringing or education, but everything to do with human decency.

I understand that people make mistakes, but it is your apparent inability to recognize or desire to rectify your mistake that makes you a cruel person.

Leave the "other girl," and then give serious though to whether you truly want to be with the long-term girlfriend and are capable of respecting her. She sounds like a highly competent and independent woman, consider setting her free before you ruin her life.

Funny answer: One word - Threesome

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Serious answer:

I don't mind the fact that you have two girlfriends, even though I myself am monogamous, I know that many people are not monogamous. But people who aren't monogamous should at least be transparent about that fact with all partners, and this is where you come in.

The real problem is that you are going to end up hurting two people, which is unfair on them. I'm assuming as neither of these girls know about each other, then they are monogamous. They will get hurt if they find out.

I suggest to limit the damage that you cut it off with the new girl now, because it will be best for all parties in the long run. It will be a moment of sadness for her, but she will recover better than if you break up with your long term girlfriend, or both when they find out about each other (which they will).

Yeah who's to say that pedestrian in front of me isn't going to run over someone tomorrow? Maybe I'll run over him.

Meh.. I could say like the others that you are a bad man.. you are gonna hurt you girlfriend.. your fling.. yourself etc etc.. but I won't.. This is life.. You just don't love your girlfriend otherwise you wouldn't do the other girl.. Good for you to find that out.. now break up with her.. don't be in a pity relationship cause she is so nice and you had 3 years invested.. think about yourself and be happy!