You can have someone who has finished their studies, but because they lack real life work experience, and no one is prepared to give them a fair go so they can gain the experience (even if the job they applying for is not what they studied and just applying for anything), the years of rejection will take its toll. This is a individual thing, but everyone is different when it comes to rejection, and eventually, a limit will be reached. You can bet the attitude will change.
Let's say hypothetically speaking, you finish your studies are uni, and you are now in your early 20s. You are full of energy and the right attitude to do what you can to find a job. 6-12 months of job hunting into an area you have studied has gotten you nowhere, so you expand your search to settle for anything you are capable of doing. Another 12 months goes by and you still unemployed because yo lack the actual experience and no one wants to give you a chance to gain the experience. You get more and more frustrated because no one will give you a fair go and you start to begin to doubt yourself. Now another 3 years have gone by and doing everything you can do to try and gain a job, you still are unemployed because no one wants to give you a chance to gain the experience.
End result, after so long and having so many rejections after rejections, you finally had enough and don't care any more. This is what will happen. And there are people who end up not caring anymore whether they have a job or not and just live off the dole, because of the simple reason that no employer wanted to give these people a fair go at a younger age when they first went into the job market.
https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/5-years-out-of-college-im-an-unemployed-loser.818470/
A very similar story to mine. Long term unemployed, could not find any employment after graduating, feels like black sheep of the family. Other family and friends get jobs easily despite not working hard or going to college, because life came easy for them. Feel like a nobody, a total loser and unemployable is not something anyone will understand if they are not in the same position. People not in a similar position will not understand, because life came easier to them. I applied for many jobs and nothing. Long term unemployment increases existing mental health issues and can lead to mental health issues like chronic anxiety and depression as a direct result of the hopelessness of having no future and being stuck and the endless judgement and belittling from other people creates social anxiety.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-03-26/jericho-our-long-term-unemployment-headache/5343362
You get put into the too hard basket and the employment services simply give up on you and you are left to rot. Multiple barriers to employment, drug, alcohol, substance abuse issues, mental health issues, criminal record and no relevant skills or work history, no employer wants to take a risk on a long-term unemployed person. Long-term unemployed are there for good reasons.
Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 01 April 2019