Dark_Lord_2008 said: I do not give air to negative comments on here, I ignore comments that I do not agree with.
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I'm not being negative. I am giving you constructive criticism... That kind of sentiment is partly why you are in your current situation!
Dark_Lord_2008 said: Some people have it a lot easier than others like being born into a rich family, trust fund kid or winning the lottery.
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That is the exception and not the norm.
Dark_Lord_2008 said: The countless starving farm workers and factory workers through out the world have proven hard work is not enough, you need luck to succeed in life.
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No you don't. You need a proper and strong work ethic, which you lack.
I was kicked out of home when I was 14~ and was literally homeless, only had the clothes on my back. - I refused to accept help from anyone, got a job, got farther education at TAFE, bought a house, then became a career firefighter.
I did that off my own back. I worked damn hard for it. - And I didn't accept help from anyone.
The issue people have is they enter "bludge" education at places like TAFE or University, like Information Technology in the hopes they might get a job in that field. - It's not going to happen, there is an abundance of workers in those fields, it's competitive, you aren't going to be valuable to an employer.
Dark_Lord_2008 said: No one can make it on their own without lucky breaks in life: social network, family and friends setting up employment opportunities.. You are either born with luck or have no luck. I had no plan and no strategy and no ideas on what I wanted to do with my life and I just spammed emails to random job ads and no responses ever. |
You create your own luck. Your pity party is actually getting rather droll at this point... If you aren't going to accept constructive criticism and give yourself motivation to improve, then what the hell is the purpose of this thread?
Spamming emails to employers aren't going to get you anywhere. Period.
Dark_Lord_2008 said: It sucks when you get rejected from every job and have no idea what you are doing wrong.
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If you actually talked to employers you would know... Heck. I wouldn't employ you as your work ethic and attitude is blatantly (And I say this with respect) poor.
Dark_Lord_2008 said: You either have a job or do not have job. Some people on here that have never faced unemployment or long term unemployment. That is lucky to have never experienced hardship in life
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False. You need to work for your job. Be a little more proactive, more positive and take some affirmative action.
I have experienced hardship, been homeless, had no money.
I experience death almost daily, some days I am an emotional wreck after enduring a job, but you know what? I have this thing called motivation... And that is backed by a ton of focus.
You need to get off the pity-party train, everything you have described is due to your own personal failings, you are the only person holding yourself back... And if you aren't willing to change and improve, then maybe this thread has run it's course and isn't needed anymore? Just food for thought.
Immersiveunreality said:
To be able to go out his comfort zone it would be better he just stopped "looking for a job" in this way and tries to improve how he can control his stresslevels in social situations,if someone with shizophrenia or autism has that under control then it might become much less difficult.(stress will be there but he might be able to speak decently)
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I cannot speak for Perth specifically... However here in South Australia there are various organizations that will employ people with disabilities and give them the appropriate help and support.
I.E. Bedford is one such organization here.
I would assume there are similar schemes in the other states.
In short, excuses aren't solutions.