| Raven said: Point 1, people say it's bigoted because it 'is' bigoted. We don't get to pat ourselves on the back and tell ourselves we're fine with the poor wretches existing but wish they would just stop asking for rights. I would think most people that fall under historically marginalized groups would have some idea what that's like (ie. "I don't hate gay people but I wish they would stop shoving their gayness down our throats", "I don't have a problem with you because you're black, you're not like 'the others'") I just find it impossible to reconcile the two personally. Point 2, I don't see the point in making this case with your views with Josh Hawley. A simple look would just make obvious that he's among the same ilk of conservative politicians who are nothing more than provocateurs that try to use their perceived idea of "the left's wokeness" against them through their rhetoric without really offering anything substantial outside of some 'very' minimal and too little too late concessions. Also if you're mad about the Democrats aiming high and falling short, what do you expect from people like Hawley that are already aiming low with their goals? Point 3, to continue the idea of provocateurs, what is the end game of shining light on someone unwilling to offer substance in their policy to get back at those trying to be a little bit more ambitious but being unable to due to regulations of the body they're serving in. Passing a minimum wage hike along with a COVID-19 relief bill might not be possible now, but can certainly happen down the line or, if needed, actually take these issues to the ballot in 2022 and vote on it instead of making a short-sighted "fuck you" vote towards people like Hawley. |
So let me go through these items:
Point 1: Those who believe womanhood to be merely a state of mind and not a material reality often say that it is bigoted and hateful to disagree. I honestly don't know what to say to that but that it simply isn't true. My own perspective on gender identity as a concept is substantially informed by that of a woman I've known many years now who went through a period of transitioning into first a "tri-gender" identity (as it was called back then), then a male identity, and finally back to identifying as female. Before walking through that with her, I knew really nothing at all about gender identity; not even whether to call a transwoman and transwoman or instead a transman, anything like that. I learned about the concept through her and was supportive through each transition, to which end I used to be much more on board ideologically with the gender identity movement than I am today. Her experience was very negative, as she faced much discrimination not only outside the trans community, but also within it as well. Her explanation as to why she transitioned in the first place has evolved with distance from that time, but the bottom line is that she considers gender identity to be a bullshit concept that was affirmatively harmful to her. I don't have first-hand experience with transitioning to truly know what it's like for myself or know anyone else besides her in an offline capacity who has gone through a gender identity transition before, to which end I have no doubt that there may be something about it that I'm just not understanding. Other than her experience, it's just what people share with me on the internet. To this end, I reserve the right to change my fundamental opinion of transgenderism. But I just cannot agree with the notion that one's physical composition should be considered socially irrelevant. My point though is that it's not out of some place of contempt for gender-nonconforming people from which I'm approaching this issue. I don't know how to better communicate this point.
You make a comparison to the treatment that gay people have experienced. Well I am one of those and I find it pretty easy to differentiate between my attitude toward my sexuality and a group of people yelling at me on Facebook telling me that I should be attracted to transwomen as a lesbian because dicks can be very female too. I've had that bizarre experience as well. Think I've mentioned it before actually. It doesn't characterize the attitude of most trans people (who I often find pleasant company in the capacity that I have it), but there is a social movement in existence that thinks like this, in these sorts of ways, and that's the thing I really object to here.
Point 2: I don't view everything conservatives do, think, and say as coming from a place of bad faith. I know too many of them to believe that. The "weak" $15/hour proposal that Senator Hawley is advocating, for example, is more principled than the offerings of some Democratic senators on the same issue and Hawley's proposed approach is also now being championed by Bernie Sanders for inclusion in the Rescue Plan. Is Senator Sanders being "weak" and just trolling the libs as well? This is not the first issue on which the two of them have landed in a similar place either. I would be among the millions and millions of workers affected by it because the company I work for has a revenue stream exceeding $62 billion. And they pay me $9.40 an hour.
Point 3: As I sought to explain in my last reply to you, I highlight Hawley's IMO superior proposals in certain areas to clarify my level of disappointment with many Democratic office-holders (including the Biden Administration itself) at this moment.
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