There are 10 guys to 1 woman on a dating site. The fake profiles that contact me first are Nigerian scammers, cam girls and porn websites. I have never upgraded my dating accounts.
I bet my cat, that you will have better chances if you just go to random girls and talk to them.
Go to a mall and as soon as a nice girl comes by, go to her and say just the MOST BASIC THINGS!
"Hey, I am [INSERT YOUR NAME] and I think you look cute!"
That is more than enough.
Do this 10 times and you will get more options than 100 messages on dating websites could do for you.
It is THAT simple.
Imagine not having GamePass on your console...
Give up on dating and just live my life out as a single guy is probably for the best. I am in my mid 30s now and I have never had any relationships and only met some randoms off the net that went no where. #MGTOW
Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 11 October 2018
| Dark_Lord_2008 said: Give up on dating and just live my life out as a single guy is probably for the best. I am in my mid 30s now and I have never had any relationships and only met some randoms off the net that went no where. #MGTOW |
Staying single isn't the worst decision. I recommend getting a sex doll. (The expensive TPE or Silicone kind, not the cheap Inflatable type.)
It depends on the dating app and your age range.
On Tinder, you need to be in the top 10%, but Tinder is for hooking up, not for dating.
On actual dating apps however, you don't need to be in the top 10% most handsome, and can be in the top 20% of the profiles just by taking good pictures, obviously enhancing them without deforming reality and having an interesting description.
Appearance tends to matter less with age too, at least for reasonable people.
You go in with the idea that all women are superficial, want to exploit men and will file a sexual harassment lawsuit at the first chance and you wonder why it doesn't work?
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| Dark_Lord_2008 said: The women can use the guy up for free meals, drinks , fix her car, pay her mortgage and feed her kids. The women on dating sites do not even have to work real jobs. She is constantly searching for next guy/victim for next free ride. It is probably for the best I do not get picked by women on dating sites. Women on dating sites can have many guys they can string along use up for free meals, drinks, pay bills, free trips. free everything. Do you want to be the lucky guy she pick as her next prey? She has strong connections, strong police and a team of Beta males to protect her. |
Ur so alpha bro, maybe this forum isn't incel enough for you.
There's only 2 races: White and 'Political Agenda'
2 Genders: Male and 'Political Agenda'
2 Hairstyles for female characters: Long and 'Political Agenda'
2 Sexualities: Straight and 'Political Agenda'
| Torillian said: I met my wife on okcupid about 5 years ago now and if I were to give any pointers it would be to send messages that show you actually read their profile. The dates that I got on that site were because I showed interest in their hobbies and tried to ask relevant questions about them (like talking about being a teacher if that's their career goal). It takes longer to send those kind of messages, but if you don't put in the time to present something beyond your profile and a "hey" then you can't be too mad if you're judged on superficial bases. I still didn't get messages from probably 95% of those I sent to, but then you have to recognize that women are inundated with messages so if you don't write something that stands out in some way then you shouldn't be surprised if she doesn't have time to respond to every single message. Think of it like sending out job applications, everyone sends out many more applications than they get jobs and gets rejected over and over again but you only need to succeed once. |
The funny thing here is I swear we had a thread like this a year ago and you wrote pretty much the same.
Still holds true what you say.
d21lewis said:
Also, THIS! With filters and editing, these women often look nothing like the person they present themselves as! I've been there so many times, it was depressing. I'd still be a gentleman, take them out, and tell them to have a good night but good lord. And not only do they not look like themselves, they lie about their lives.
No kids? Non smoker? Athletic? Good job? I don't know if they're lying to me or lying to themselves. Luckily I'm married now .My online dating days are done. |
Women are like chameleons. I've seen some look different each day of the week depending how much effort they put in. At times I have questions if they the same person lol. That is why i personally liked women who don't overly dressup and put too much makeup on as at least you get to see the real them and learn to appreciate their natural features and not the image they portray.
| KungKras said: So what you're saying is "Start viewing yourself as trash, and go for other trash and you miiiight, just might get laid" ? No! People should have more self-respect than that. The only way forward is to keep improving yourself until the women that you want are interested in you (And women should have this mentality too). Work out. Work on your career. Learn some languages. Be interesting. Make it so that YOU are the one with options to choose from. And if you still fail, it's better to be alone with your honour intact than to lower your internal self-worth and go for people you really don't want. |
Self improvement is a great thing, so you're advice isn't terrible.
However, this is all contextual. A lot of guys that have the viewpoint of the OP are bothered that they can't land a girl online, but they are only swiping on girls that are way more attractive than they are. Think about it. If a guy wants a girl that is super hot (you know, those profiles with girls that are mom dogs, travel, are independent women, and look great in a bikini), why would that girl not want a guy that offers as much as she does? And considering online dating is typically gated by pictures, a woman will probably match with a guy she's attracted to first before getting to know him. It's the same with men matching with women.
Sometimes, it's alright to be aware of reality. Yeah, you can work on yourself to land the girl you want, but you can also lower your own superficiality to get practice dealing with women. It doesn't have to be all or nothing. There's nothing dishonorable about that.
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