I'm not interested in VR, so 4k

So in your opinion, it's great like it is, and you refuse to acknowledge that other people don't believe the same as you, so you have to question whether they've used it or not.

Do you realize Habam has been banned twice now for the same attitude?

It doesn't matter how much it's praised. It matters how much it's supported by both developers and fans. Its severely lacking in both fronts to this day, and it doesn't look like it's going to change in a meaningful way any time soon.

VR is a major enhancement in every single aspect of of the way we use electronics, the way we communicate with each other, and the way we live our lives. 

4K alone, is just another minor progression on the same thing we have had in our homes since the 60's.

4K HDR is a significant leap over previous display tech. On a traditional display it offers a worthy step forward, but it will change the world in VR.

VR offers everything a 4K display can offer, plus an unlimited amount of new functionallity. In all honesty, it is not even a remotely close battle. 

Looking just at current games that offer VR and 4K, Gran Turismo Sport and Resident Evil 7 to name two, I have absolutely no interest in ever playing those games on any traditional display after playing in VR. 

After playing Arizona Sunshine and Farpoint with the Aim controller, I have very little interest in Traditional TV and Controller based FPS's. The expereince and the incredible leap in gameplay are something that can not be matched with a retro setup.

Now that I have played Skyrim in VR, stuff like Horizon and Zelda feel like I am disabled when I go back to them. The lack of controllability, the limited FOV, and the loss of immersion make it feel dull in comparison.

Then you go to stuff like Carnival Games, I Expect You To Die, Superhot VR, Accounting+, Job Simulator, and many more, and these are expereinces that are not possible anywhere but in VR. 

VR is next gen everything. 4K is almost pointless. HDR, However, does deliver a quantum leap over previous traditional displays.

There are many people that have tried "this generation of VR" and aren't having the time of their lives, and aren't willing to pay for it.

Wonderful that you enjoy it, but please understand and accept that many don't enjoy it nearly as much as you do.

I vote HDR. HDR needs to be an option. It covers a higher color gamut and helps improve contrast ratio. Resolution would be secondary to HDR.

TV technology also was some decades "at the beginning"

I think I see what you're saying. But you can buy some sets with 4K only while you can buy other sets with 4K and HDR.  While personally I am content with HDR on a quality 1080p set, those sets are quite rare. Having to buy a set with 4K and HDR is not an issue for me.

Resident evil 7 has won some goty Awards

A VR exclusive can’t win any goty awards currently scince no magazine would give a goty award to a game just accessible to such a small Userbase. That’s why they made a category: „VR game of the year“. Vr Games arnt even considered competition, you can’t even vote for them.

that said, games like farpoint or lone echo recieved similar good user reviews as games like zelda botw. Amazon verified user reviews: farpoint with aim Controller 4,8/5; Zelda botw 4,8/5. both with more then 100 votes 

I don’t think you need to wait. Skyrim vr (at least if you don’t get motion sick and adeptly to the controls) is beyond everything we ever saw in screen based gaming. Controls and combat system is superior, scale is impressive, beeing in tamriel is outstanding. I’m currently playing the Dragonborn dlc and it’s sooo damn good. Seriously, way more fun then I had with botw.