Forums - General Discussion - I'm about to get into my first real fight. UPDATE: he came to my house and surprised me.

Player1x3 said:
NintendoPie said:
Player1x3 said:
Wow...you people have some easy lives. I bet most of you don't even get a good amount of respect from your peers.

The fact that you think respect is earned by fear is ridiculous. If you had real friends there wouldn't be anything to prove and they especially wouldn't need to "fear" you.


It's not about how i think, it's a fact. Respect is earned by fear. It's not the only way or the morally right way, but it's the most effective way. 


You think people respect you because they fear you?
If someone fears you, they certainly don't respect you, they are actually Afraid/Hate you, in no-way, shape or form would they actually respect you.

People like yourself I pity greatly, the world is an amazing place, yet all you can think about is enacting violence to get your point across and think it's the right thing to do.
Well, it's not. You are causing not only Physical harm to someone else, but possibly mental aswell, the only thing I hope is that the same isn't done to yourself one day, or to your children.



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KylieDog said:
Player1x3 said:
NintendoPie said:

The fact that you think respect is earned by fear is ridiculous. If you had real friends there wouldn't be anything to prove and they especially wouldn't need to "fear" you.


It's not about how i think, it's a fact. Respect is earned by fear. It's not the only way or the morally right way, but it's the most effective way. 


Is a sad little world you live in if fighting gets you respect.  Is pathetic playschool mentality.  When you're older, assuming you place yourself with people who's mental age reflects their physical one, people who get into fights are seen as oafs, brutes, complete pricks or maybe just arseholes, and nobody respects them.  They are seen as the arse end of society.


I didn't say fighting got/gets me respect.  I said it CAN and it WILL get you respect. 

The only people who judge it are insecure weak cowards who hide behind the cloak of ''maturity'' and manners. Im telling you, those people have incredibly easy lives, are fragile, sheltered babies that never had to worry about their image in their society 

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Player1x3 said:


I didn't say fighting got/gets me respect.  I said it CAN and it WILL get you respect. 

The only people who judge it are insecure weak cowards who hide behind the cloak of ''maturity'' and manners. Im telling you, those people have incredibly easy lives, are fragile, sheltered babies that never had to worry about their image in their society 


Lets see what happens when you try to instill "fear" into your boss and threaten him with physical harm. :P
Not only would you probably be fired, but possibly taken to court too!



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Pemalite said:
Player1x3 said:
NintendoPie said:
Player1x3 said:
Wow...you people have some easy lives. I bet most of you don't even get a good amount of respect from your peers.

The fact that you think respect is earned by fear is ridiculous. If you had real friends there wouldn't be anything to prove and they especially wouldn't need to "fear" you.


It's not about how i think, it's a fact. Respect is earned by fear. It's not the only way or the morally right way, but it's the most effective way. 


You think people respect you because they fear you?
If someone fears you, they certainly don't respect you, they are actually Afraid/Hate you, in no-way, shape or form would they actually respect you.

People like yourself I pity greatly, the world is an amazing place, yet all you can think about is enacting violence to get your point across and think it's the right thing to do.
Well, it's not. You are causing not only Physical harm to someone else, but possibly mental aswell, the only thing I hope is that the same isn't done to yourself one day, or to your children.

I didnt say you should go out and pick a fight every chance you get, but if someone calls you out, you better step up instead of bitching out. 

And those are some pretty big/pretentious and judgmental words you threw at me. You sure you don't wannabe calm down a little.



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UPDATE: this morning, I just got out of my house to go to the park cause it was Canada day today :D I barely got out of my yard, and there he was with his Girlfriend and a bunch of his friends. I didn't know if he was waiting for me, or he was just passing by going to the park like I was. but either way, he came at me without a word, and it was a slow hook, that I just dodged at the last second. it was on, and I was COMPLETLY unprepared. he had me on the ropes for a good 10 seconds with hook after hook, he was just flaming violently with his arms, and I blocked most of them, and he never got a clean hit. I decided to go on the offensive, and grabbed one of his arms as he was swinging it at me, and I yanked him closer while thrusting my fist forward at his face, and BOOM! right in the cheeck. and it hurt my fist more then I thought it would, but he went down on his ass for about a second or two, and got up quickly again. this time I was prepared, and he was STILL using the same hook after hook after hook, with almost no jabs and I was blocking them without much difficulty, but he was going at it so fast I couldn't do much else but block. this went on for a good minute, he got a few hits in and I was feeling a bit sore in the face, but he looked VERY tired, and I saw my chance, and went all out on him with repeated jabs to the stomach, and he was hitting me back but he was so tired by then they hits were nothing I couldn't handle, until he just grabbed me and was trying to get on top of me, and I felt like I was done for cause he was just locked on to me. he was slowly getting ontop of me, and I couldnt do nothing to stop it except for just jumping backwards on my back, crushing him. I did that, and my god it hurt A LOT. even though I wasn't the guy on the bottom, when I landed the wind got so badly knocked out of me I felt I was gonna pass out, and I couldn't breath. I slowly wriggled off of him, slowly catching my breath, and saw he was barely moving at all, and had weak coughs every few seconds. he was badly hurt, so I just got up and walked back into my yard and locked the gate and just lay there on the grass trying to catch my breath. I was there for a good 10 - 15 minutes laying on the grass, and then I got up checking to see if he was okay. I got out of my yard again and nobody was there, just a small pool of blood were the guy and me fell. did I win? I don't think anyone won this fight. but wow, my mom said I was gone from the house for about 20 minutes (she never knew I was in a fight lol) so the fight didn't last more then 5 or so minutes, but it fealt like it lasted an hour. wow, that was pretty painful though :/

Congrats for surviving. Although you should have your parents talk to the other kid's parents. I mean going into your yard to fight you? That is like a no, no under the law.

Also when you see someone hostile coming towards you (especially at your home turf) don't just let them get near you. Get some distance, pick up a weapon if need be and ward him off. Usually it discourages any would be attackers because if his friends actually helped out then the entire event would be different.



Pemalite said:
Player1x3 said:


I didn't say fighting got/gets me respect.  I said it CAN and it WILL get you respect. 

The only people who judge it are insecure weak cowards who hide behind the cloak of ''maturity'' and manners. Im telling you, those people have incredibly easy lives, are fragile, sheltered babies that never had to worry about their image in their society 


Lets see what happens when you try to instill "fear" into your boss and threaten him with physical harm. :P
Not only would you probably be fired, but possibly taken to court too!

That's exactly what im talking about. I respect him out of fear of losing my job and money. Not because he's smart/generous/fair/ or good or any crap like that. Fear motivates everything.



Anyway.. After all this troubleshooter this girl better be worth it! We demand a picture!!



 

Face the future.. Gamecenter ID: nikkom_nl (oh no he didn't!!) 

Player1x3 said:

I didnt say you should go out and pick a fight every chance you get, but if someone calls you out, you better step up instead of bitching out. 

And those are some pretty big/pretentious and judgmental words you threw at me. You sure you don't wannabe calm down a little.

Nah, if someone "calls me out" I would walk away, probably with a smile, I'm not going to waste 5 minuits on such a person, they are simply not worth the time of day.
If it escalated, they would have 2 choices, the easy way or the hard way.
The easy way would be for them to walk away aswell, or I take legal proceedings, it's as simple as that.

You can try to act tough and almighty, but really, in the grand scheme of things, it's simply petty.

P.S. I'm 100% perfectly calm, how you came to the conclusion that I wasn't really baffles me.




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NintendoPie said:
Player1x3 said:
Wow...you people have some easy lives. I bet most of you don't even get a good amount of respect from your peers.

The fact that you think respect is earned by fear is ridiculous. If you had real friends there wouldn't be anything to prove and they especially wouldn't need to "fear" you.


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