HappySqurriel said:
I don’t think that is a fair characterization ... I would say that (in general) most people who are pro-life want to prevent unwanted pregnancies rather than terminate them. In general, they would argue that (if you're unable to support a child) you should abstain from sex or at least have protected sex with responsible people; and if you end up pregnant you should favour adoption.
I generally find the left's positions far more bizzarre, they will argue that having sex doesn't mean that you're consenting to have a child unless you're a man; either sex does not obligate you to be a parent and we should create legal paternal surrender laws, or it is an obligation and women should not be able to abort their children. On top of this, since wide spread birth control, abortion, and several forms of surrendering your children exist to prevent women from having to support children they can't afford we're (as society) still to pay for these women to raise these children even though they consciously decided to have them knowing they couldn't afford them; and since their financial hardship is caused by a conscience choice then welfare should be denied to single mothers. |
And how barbarously cruel would it be to deny welfare to single mothers? You're talking about the people who need it most, right there.
There should be grounds for paternal surrender, but it must depend on several factors, because whether we like it or not, pregnancy and childbirth is one place where the genders will never be equal (unless we ever move to a "Brave New World" style of total machine-birthing), and so where the double standard is valid (and pretty much the only place where the double standard is valid, as i generally share your concerns on the matter).
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