Mr Khan said:
The difference is between a child that does exist and one that does not yet exist. In the case of a married couple, a man should be able to have more say in the decision (and in any ideal situation ,would simply have such say by virtue of being agreeably, happily married), but you can't love that which does not yet exist, but rather love the idea of her having a child, which is a very different scenario with different connotations. Like i said, the one valid application of the double-standard. |
But here in lies the problem, if you can't love what doesn't exist than you can't make the argument that welfare should support women who have children knowing they couldn't support them because of "familial love".







