Kamal said:
sapphi_snake said:
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Chrizum said:
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Being gay isn't 'nature' - because the whole point of sex/attraction is reproduction obviously and support for the young.
It's anti-nature. I know that makes being gay sound like a bad thing, and its not, but thats the way it is.
Anyway I believe its choice. All males are born to enjoy stimulation of the penis; the choice is whether the stimulation is done by a female's front, or another dude's rear end. You chose which is more aesthetically pleasing to you.
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You can't pick your emotions... "today I'll deicde to be attracted to men for a change". There is no choice involved whatsoever. In fact, we have little control over most things in life.
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Your environment shapes your emotions to a very large extent. You develop schema of what is attractive, and then males or females will fulfill this attractive criteria better for you.
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If this were true, then there would be no homosexuals (actually, there would be no individuality, or behavioral differences between people for that matter).
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They could argue that personal satisfaction is what they want and your environment won't have a control over that.
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Going by your hypothesis (that the environment determines what people's preferences are), then someone growing up in a heteronormative environment, where people are indoctrinated with the ideea that they should only be attracted to people of the opposite sex, will only find people of the oppiste sex attractive (as the environment is what causes preference, at least that's what you said).
This would essentially apply to every aspect of a person's life (everyone would like the same food, the same drinks, the same books, the same music etc.). Reality obviously proves otherwise.
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