sapphi_snake said:
Well, I can keep staring at Rosie O'Donnel, but man no matter how much I want to, I just can't find her attractive.I think you (like many people) confuse ATTRACTION with ACTION. Sure, I could CHOOSE to hit on Rosio O'Donnel, put a condom on, and rock her world while thinking I'm doing Angelina Jolie. However I cannot CHOOSE to be ATTRACTED to her. Bisexuals do have a choice of which gender to pursue, but they themselves cannot CHOOSE to be ATTRACTED to someone. |
So you are saying that people can never have a choice in who they are attracted to? That sounds utterly chaotic and quite frankly terrifying. I like to make my own decisions, not have fate or some birth genetics determine it for me. People can be straight their whole lives and for example, a man can get tired of cheating/crazy women and give guys a try or vice versa. That right there is clearly a choice.
Just as I can very easily hangout with extremely "attractive" females as a straight male and have no urge to reproduce with them. That's because who I like is my choice and is determined by many variables that I myself decided.