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sapphi_snake on 16 February 2011

OP:

Very touching story. It's better high school drama than those silly shows on TV (I'm not trying to be mean here). She's probably one of those girls who like bad boys and have daddy issues. She's not worth it, she won't apreciate you, so let her have her abusing rapist boyfriend. She deserves him.

Also, stop drinking, and don't upset your mom because of this. I myself come from a family with some alcoholics, so in case this thing is genetic, I promised myself I'll never drink. You should really try to keep the promise you made.



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sapphi_snake on 16 February 2011
trashleg said:
sapphi_snake said:
trashleg said:

snesboy, if you want lady advice, why not start a thread like you said you would if you ever got back into girls?

Silly girl, he never was gay. His "coming out" thread was just a joke thread


Trust me, i know.

Yeah, that was so anticlimatic. Where's the world coming to if you can't even trust what people post on the Internet?



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

MrBubbles on 16 February 2011

i was watching some john wayne films recently, so i now consider myself an expert on women.  the thing you are doing wrong is that women really love it when you smack them around and force yourself on them.   they will struggle and complain at the start, but thats just how you know they are really into you.  and after you are done, its best to drag them around by their hair, so they know you care about them and you are not just interested in sex.



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sapphi_snake on 16 February 2011
MrBubbles said:

i was watching some john wayne films recently, so i now consider myself an expert on women.  the thing you are doing wrong is that women really love it when you smack them around and force yourself on them.   they will struggle and complain at the start, but thats just how you know they are really into you.  and after you are done, its best to drag them around by their hair, so they know you care about them and you are not just interested in sex.

This man speaks the truth. I rember that's what Rhett Butler did in Gone with the Wind, and Scarlet just loved it the morning after.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

A203D on 16 February 2011

That was a great but sad story. i dont really know what can be done now, if your friendship with this girl is dead or if theres still a chance it can be salvaged.

imo, i think shes always known that you've had feelings for her, but never cared enough about you to treat you the same way you've treated her. this is just a base observation, obviously i could be wrong.

but you have to decide what you want, to be friends and silently bite your tonge everytime you see her, or be honest and scare her away. which is probabily whats happened now.

however from personal experience i've found that girls attitudes change over time. if she says one thing, then in a few months that may change. imo you just have to wait for the perfect moment. and not try too hard, or she can tell straight away.

i think you should appologise and tell her that your strong enough to control your feelings if shes still willing to be friends. and i think in time 'love grows'.

every dog has his day man. you can take my word on that!



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NiKKoM on 16 February 2011
trashleg said:
NiKKoM said:
trashleg said:

PS. i cant imagine a guy feeling that way about me. she's a lucky girl and was too silly to realise it.


I bet you have made full grown men cry cause you said no to them...


nah. maybe actually only a couple. but what the OP described, i dont believe any of them felt. thats an incredible amount of emotion to have for one person.

except one guy, but he fucked me around something awful before we were even close friends. we became close eventually (as mates), then he told me what he'd done and soon after that he told me he was in love with me. and i know i could never trust him so i had to say that as much as i liked him back, i couldnt love him after that. but thats a story for another day.

Well a guy won't ever tell you straight in your face about his feelings.. but boys can go gaga like that over a girl even for you.. some guys really think you are their soulmate..

anyway I actually just quoted you so we won't forget that you tell us that story someday.. :)



 

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NiKKoM on 16 February 2011
A203D said:

however from personal experience i've found that girls attitudes change over time. if she says one thing, then in a few months that may change. imo you just have to wait for the perfect moment. and not try too hard, or she can tell straight away.

I don't know about this... sure a girls attitudes changes a lot... like the weather... about her clothing, friends, movies, dinner but about loving someone? I don't think so.. the chemistry was always there or it was never there.. it doesn't
magicly appear... sure he can wait for months and months but imo he should move on..



 

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Aldro on 16 February 2011

Being friends and close with someone you love who doesn't have the same feelings for you will eat you eventually, just wait for it.



Aldro on 16 February 2011
Slimebeast said:

GodofWar4ever,

Thanks for sharing your story. You handled it all well, there's nothing strange about how you felt and behaved. You can soon be happy that you confessed your love to her in that very vulnerable moment. You will learn how hard that is (and how tricky love is by its own nature) and with time you will realize that you have to protect your own feelings better in the future, but without getting too bitter or cynical (yet still maintain being optimistic and bold when contacting women).

You're only 17, you have the world in front of you. There's millions of other fine chicks out there.

Great comment dude.



Slimebeast on 16 February 2011
trashleg said:
NiKKoM said:
trashleg said:

PS. i cant imagine a guy feeling that way about me. she's a lucky girl and was too silly to realise it.


I bet you have made full grown men cry cause you said no to them...


nah. maybe actually only a couple. but what the OP described, i dont believe any of them felt. thats an incredible amount of emotion to have for one person.

except one guy, but he fucked me around something awful before we were even close friends. we became close eventually (as mates), then he told me what he'd done and soon after that he told me he was in love with me. and i know i could never trust him so i had to say that as much as i liked him back, i couldnt love him after that. but thats a story for another day.

What do you mean he fucked you around?

He cheated on you or he mentally fucked you?
(I'm not native lol)