Umm, how are you reading this and driving?? I mean that alone is raising your chances of crashing regardless of what it is you are reading

you bump her, you dump her quick.

This is so true. It would be an absolute nightmare to find something like that out after you are married.

how long have you guys been dating?

What? Come on, divorced people might be more prevalant these days, but married people are still the majority!

If your a Christian, I'm pretty sure you believe that God made you and whoever your doing the hanky panky with were literally made for each other.

Hmm. If she's being dead serious, get a new girlfriend or make it perfectly clear where you stand on it. Her trying to use sex as a negotiating tactic to get what she wants shows her level of maturity. What happens if you cave in and she learns that using that tactic works with ya. She'll do it again and again. Immaturity doesn't bode well for any relationship.

Do you really want to be with a girl that´s blackmailing you, manipulating you?....because that´s what she´s doing.

Open negotiations! Perhaps you can leverage her desire for an immediate marriage to reduce the cost of the wedding and honeymoon.

I suspect that's one of those things she may agree to initially and renege on later, though.

If you have to be blackmailed into marrying a woman, she's not the woman you should marry.