I got high expectations in today's societal standards.
Beauty is subjective however the following are dealbreakers/turn offs for me if any woman do/have the following
-Smoking
-Drinking alcohol
-Consuming Recreational drugs
-Wanting pets
-Tattoos
-Overweight (like plus size)
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Stuff that I looked into when I was looking for a partner before I got married which I know restricted/limited my pool of choices but I was okay with that
-Must be Indian/Desi - specifically from Kerala, all other parts of India - low priority/last resort (Preferably born in India and not in the US)
-Must know Malayalam AND English
-Must want to live in the US
-Must be Christian (#1 Syriac Jacobite Orthodox, #2 Syriac Orthodox and last resort #3 Catholic - no evangelicals, protestant, etc)
-Must have an education (Was looking for someone in medical field since I'm in IT and I feel IT + Medical field is a great stable combination that covers all bases)
-Must want to work/earn money
-Must want children
-Family Oriented (as in wanting to be close to parents, inlaws and loyal to household (i.e. putting family over anyone else outside of household)
Hobbies were not important, they can come and go so it wasnt a priority.