I only played VIII and XI. Dragon Quest VIII was the reason why I quitted playing Final Fantasy, because I had so much more fun with this game than with any FF.
But Dragon Quest XI is maybe the best JRPG to date (I played the Definitive Edition on Switch). It has a very good story with many unexpected twists, outstanding character movement, a very solid round-based battle system, a motivating alchemy crafting system (forge), large overworld, big towns, fast teleport, a map in dungeons, interesting side quests, good orchestral music. It's actually hard to find any negative point.
I'm currently playing Bravely Default II and it is so much worse in every aspect I mentioned before. Maybe I check out DQ V after beating Bravely Defaul II. It really looks interesting.