In view of the circumstances, I can only say one thing, and I really mean it:
That's basically my philosophy, and it's something I live by. But when I come to this forum, what I always find instead is that people are always for any reason doing something to someone for any reason always, and man, is that annoying. Like, damn, it's always the same, no matter what, no matter where or who, or who you are with, or where you are going, or where you've been, for any reason whatsoever... Can't you people just stop it, please?
And to be clear,
I'm mostly a lurker now.