Oh boy you guys don't make it easy on me do you? AGAIN for the millionth time, WHERE do I say that the victim must be blamed?

I said the victim needs to take responsibility for a mistake, not for the crime, you BLAME someone for the crime, not for a mistake.

If I may say something to all that have been arguing against me on this issue, how can I make you understand that I obviously understand that a victim of rape is NOT to be blamed for the crime (obviously) or even the mistake. That victim needs simply to take responsibility like we all do in whatever decisions we take in our lives.

Right now I take responsibility for standing up with my opinion on a sensitive topic. That means I am NOT responsible for people calling me names or this guy judging me on my age (really) but not even trying to bring up an opinion on this matter and calling me lazy in my arguments or trying to run away from it when I am CLEARLY debating this issue and not bailing out.

Some of you are "guilty" of little things of course, no big deal, but things like name calling or judging on age, or judging on words I did not say etc... but I DO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for debating this and the CONSEQUENCE of my responsibility is that I'm getting all this little attacks BECAUSE I CHOSE to debate a sensitive issue. See how responsibility works? If I had not debated this or kept my opinion to myself I wouldn't be here debating literally alone against a group of people intent on making me say what I did not say.

Do you realize the irony here? According to your arguments I should NOT take responsibility for my opinion, yet by debating with me, attacking me, name calling me for some of you, you are sending the message that I expressed a sensitive opinion and that I must take responsibility for it, which is EXACTLY the point I have been trying to make here.

So I DO take responsibility for my opinion. YET name callers are still guilty of name calling or age judging etc as their choice to name call me is not my "crime" it's theirs (Not literally a crime, I use the word crime again as an example to the main issue we discuss).... You are making me take responsibility while arguing that as simply giving my opinion I should not take responsibility of the consequences. The irony is powerful here.

If they are not to be blamed for the mistake, then what is there to take responsibility for?

Bold: This is (partially) true if you're talking about the 'modern' marriage.

In the past marriage was not really about love. It was a almost unbreakable contract recognized by state/church/class/just important people which would bind two sexes together and see the continuation of the society. For the most part it was simple enough: A man provided resources and authority and the women provided fertility and sex.

When you commited to this contract, it was a very big deal for all parties. It was one of the most important contract you could enter with far-reaching consequences for both sexes which could last untill death. Under that understanding it can build very strong relationships where business, heritage, blood and even love are mixed in a mutual beneficial contract for both. One of the best free trade deals around  untill .gov got in on the game

As a literal contract it means indeed nothing as all social constructs do. But in the context of the past and social cohesion, it did mean a lot. In the current times it's value is almost zero i quess.

I would not marry myself at this point. As a man there is nothing to gain in marriage.

being married in a church and signing some papers to the government yes maybe is unnatural, but a man and a woman raising their kids for me it is whats its natural, normal and important to the development of society.

What do you think the goal of feminism is?

The bold is funny, because it has a long history of doing just that.  

Really? You go out for a walk and you are supposed to know that you are going to get stabbed?

On the other side, you marry someone you don't know well enough, yet you assume he's going to be perfect and nothing bad could possibly comes out of him?

Assuming other people are dangerous is BASIC STUFF, it's everywhere. Why do you think my name is crazygamer and not my real name? why do you think my face, address, family names, place of work etc... do not appear on this forum? Why do you think YOUR name, address etc... do not appear in the forum? Why is the front door of your house locked when you are not home, possibly locked too when you are home? Because you DO ASSUME there is danger with other human beings and if you don't assume, and let your door open all day long or give all your info online and sooner or later something bad happens, you are not going to consider your MISTAKE as exactly that?

Same thing here, don't leave your door open, don't give your info online and if you do then take responsibility. NOT for the crime someone could commit against you but for the lack of good judgement of doing those things.