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Shit or get off the pot.... You'll soon learn to do it or move on. Make yourself presentable and take a swipe or leave it alone. Otherwise you're wasting your time...literally. 



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GL op, give us update when the time comes



crucifix her with ur cock lad



Tell her how you feel pal, be relaxed and be yourself and you will be fine.



Tell her you are from Ireland, and everytime you see her your penis is Dublin ;)



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okay, im gonna keep it real simple. since you havent talked to her yet, there is no point in being a jerk to her to let her want you, because thats not gonna work if you havent even spoken to her yet. anyways here is what you gotta do.

ask her out, right off the bat. why do guys get in the friend zone? because they lead them selfs to it by not having the guts to ask a girl out in the first place. so they act as a friend, and ultimately become friends, and hence the friend zone. girls dont put guys in the friend zone, its guys who put them selfs there.


so back to my advice on what to do. ask her out, right away, be confident (you dont need to be, just act like it, just let her believe you are), but preferably be confident, because girls want that. and make it clear you are interested in her in that way. if she says No, well.. its done, if she says yes, well thats great.

dont be one of those guys who are secretly in love with a girl for so fucking long without having the balls to ask her out. if you ask her out right away it shows confidence. and you dont have to spend a long time wishing you are with her. dont drag it on, ask her, and you will know. if its a no, its okay, not the end of the world. dont be afraid of the No. dont let that own you.

thats my advise.



or... or... do the naked man... works 2 out of 3 times... guaranteed.



Sounds like infatuation. Actually, kind of creepily so.

Anyhow I think you will get over it, or at the very least do something more and get to know her.



Barkley said:
WolfpackN64 said:
Send her a letter. I mean it.
Facebook, text, skype, none are personal enough.

This is actually great advice! You really should contact her in some way, If you barely see each other anymore the longer you wait the less likely anything will come of it. It's best to just contact her and whatever happens happens, but if you do nothing then you'll never be with her either way. I think an actual written letter would be a lot more personal, impactful and be given more attention and thought by her than just a message over facebook.

Holy shit. If serious have either of you actually been laid?

A physical letter becomes borderline stalking given the OPs situation. The most he can do is send an informal facebook message that says nothing he mentioned in his post other than a mention to sitting next to her once.



bananaking21 said:
okay, im gonna keep it real simple. since you havent talked to her yet, there is no point in being a jerk to her to let her want you, because thats not gonna work if you havent even spoken to her yet. anyways here is what you gotta do.

ask her out, right off the bat. why do guys get in the friend zone? because they lead them selfs to it by not having the guts to ask a girl out in the first place. so they act as a friend, and ultimately become friends, and hence the friend zone. girls dont put guys in the friend zone, its guys who put them selfs there.


so back to my advice on what to do. ask her out, right away, be confident (you dont need to be, just act like it, just let her believe you are), but preferably be confident, because girls want that. and make it clear you are interested in her in that way. if she says No, well.. its done, if she says yes, well thats great.

dont be one of those guys who are secretly in love with a girl for so fucking long without having the balls to ask her out. if you ask her out right away it shows confidence. and you dont have to spend a long time wishing you are with her. dont drag it on, ask her, and you will know. if its a no, its okay, not the end of the world. dont be afraid of the No. dont let that own you.

thats my advise.

If she doesn't know him, he'll just be that creepy guy either way. He needs to plant the seed and attempt to grow it first. If hes that infatuated, hes going to scare her off no matter what we tell him.