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I don't know you, but from my experience, in most cases, falling in love with a girl that live far away, that you barely know and never talked to... intentionally or not, this is a way not to get involved with a girl, a way not to challenge your ideal ("perfect for me") with reality (great match, at most), a way to not really fail in a normal, hard way, but in a romantic, abstract way. What I mean is that inaccessibility could be not your problem, but the point of it.

That said, I met a girl a 8 years before, we were living 10.000 km away and could at most meet once a year. We are now married, and I'm very happy with her. But, even if very challenging, there were a sense of reality, immediate each-other attraction, weekly Skype, and my decision even before to come to her country in the next 3 years.

So, dare to think about yourself, if you have a long history of self-failures with impossible loves and no real experience, my advice would be to go for the real girls. If not, give it a chance, Facebook, say your are visiting the state, ask if you can meet, that's your best shot. If you really love her, you have to dare to fail.