Slade6alpha said:
I got over it and posted. |
EDIT: Oh you posted your story. I was confused. Lol.
Slade6alpha said:
I got over it and posted. |
EDIT: Oh you posted your story. I was confused. Lol.
Soleron said:
Well, for one I have to write the remainder of the week off due to how I feel after doing something like that. Yes even with someone I won't see again etc. |
This is also in response to your comment "How do I do that" with practicing....
Try online chats. It's harder than you think, but easier than in real life. Just find any girl, hell a guy even, and chat them up online (video chat). If you can get past all the dicks (literally) then it's a great way to practice 1 v 1 social behavior.
Slade6alpha said: I want to write something serious, but it's too personal and sad; and not many others are taking this thread serious yet. I am a virgin though (not proud of it). Edit: Screw it. I'll go. 20-year-old virgin and have not even done anything involved with a woman... A girl has never liked me back, I'm way too shy, inferiority complex, no self elsteem/self confidence. Whenever I walk by an attractive woman, (either at college, or out in stores) I always look down. I can never look a woman in the eyes. In high school, 10 h grade English class, we had to do a weird assignment where we got paired up with someone else. I got paired up with this really popular, beuatiful girl. We (whole class) had to stare into each other's eyes for 2 minutes and then write about them. This was horrible, I got so sweaty and completely red, it was just miserable. I've gotten to the point now where I just do not care anymore. Most of my friends have left for other colleges, or states and the people I do meet in college pretty much all leave after the semester, so it's been even more challenging to meeting friends, and especially meeting girls. I met this one girl Kaitlyn in my Accounting class, she was really pretty, and I actually didn't feel nervous talking to her; I could actually hold a conversation with her. We joked, but after a month and a half, she dropped due to a low score. That was last Fall and I've had nothing come similiar to that to now. |
Hmm after a few weeks of talking you probably should have asked for her number, and even if she ended up not being into you on love/sex level at least you made a friend right?
ps3-sales! said:
That's a shame. Well if you change your mind I'd love to hear your story and offer any feedback I can :D |
No, lol. I got over my own thing and just edited my post. It's all there.
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Well, I'm 15, so I think that's too young. I'm still in school, and I don't need that distracting me. I also don't have a girlfriend, I'm not really the friends with benefits type of person. I also don't want to get an STD.
techhunter80 said: 17 years old and still a virgin, could had lost it many times before but I never did because it never felt like the right moment, plus it felt like I was being pressured into doing it. And now I'm just too busy to borrow with girls since I'm putting more and more of my time into learning graphic design and drawing and that I'm trying to get into a good college without paying too much. |
Good for you, focus on your future first and then worry about getting a girl second.
VGPolyglot said: I also don't want to get an STD. |
Well that one's easy, you both get tested first.
Haven't found the right person. I've had opportunities, but they either didn't feel right or I was too shy to take advantage of them. Girls at my school are also pretty hard to work with.
So basically what 90% of the people in this thread will say.
VGPolyglot said: Well, I'm 15, so I think that's too young. I'm still in school, and I don't need that distracting me. I also don't have a girlfriend, I'm not really the friends with benefits type of person. I also don't want to get an STD. |
Safety first!!!
Arrogance, Confidence, Time issues, fear of STD, laziness.