It depends if it's a game where there's a lot of romancing subplots particularly where it's pushed by the player, like persona, mass effect, dragon age then male as it's just akward for me being suggestive to a guy as a girl. Not that there's anything wrong with it.
If it's a game where I get to play Dress up it becomes the barbie doll I never had, Female clothes more ridiculous, or prettier. Skyrim, FFX-2, Fallout New Vegas then female, Unless you can be fat, then dressing up a male is better GTA:SA!
If it's got neither then IDC. IE the new tomb raider and the longest journey are female but I wouldn't care if they were male. Deus Ex, Far Cry, Assassins Creed I wouldn't care if they were female.












