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Forums - Politics - HUGE Day for gay rights in the States - DOMA declaired Unconstutional - Prop 8 gone!

About damn time.



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Kasz216 said:
Zappykins said:
BloodyRain said:
At this rate, they should just make all 50 states allow it. I do see heavy resistance in more southern states though.

Well, to be fair, a marriage community place in Alabama was the 3rd place to offer same sex marriages (not legal rights with those though.)

So who do you think will be first Mississipppi or Utah?

It'd be Utah by far.  Not only is it a younger state, mormons are a lot more self focused then most people.  So they could eaisly vote for gay marriage while still thinking it's wrong and a sin.


I'd guess a Federal ruling or law happens first though.  Or at least before Mississippi.

Do you realize that not only Prop 8, but most all of the anti-marriage laws of the last years have been in most parts led by the Mormon Church and their follower?  (I bet you actually do, you are pretty connected.)

That being said, they really took alot of heat for not only defeating the Equal Rights Amendment for Women in the 1970's but also for sponsoring Prop 8 in an underhanded way.  I do realize many Mormons do support same-sex marriage and have been both horrified and disgusted by the actions of their church.  I'm sure others are tired of being the bad guys, and wish the few of those leaders would stop messing in the legal status of other people’s families.

Plus, around half of Utah is not Mormon anymore.  So you are probably correct.  But it could be both at the same time.  I could see couples getting married all across the country in states that allow it, and then going to their home state and suing to have it recognized under the "Full Faith and Credit Clause."  (Can you make class-action lawsuits across states?  They seemed to with the Tobacco Case a few years ago.)

Today was a huge win, but one vote in either way on either case could have set rights back a few years.

 



 

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Salnax said:
It's a good day for marriage.

Yes, yes it is!



 

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papamudd said:
Ehh id prefer pot to be lagalized, after that gay/lesbian marriages should be a cake walk... Also if im not gay can i marry another guy? If not that's discrimination

Sure, just like now you could marry a woman.  But you would have to kiss and make the sex with them.  So if your not gay, it sure seems like a whole lot of faking.

Doesn't seem worth it.



 

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JakDaSnack said:
So how long till polygamy is legalized?

You know, it's really interesting.  People like to put those together, but they are actually quite different issues.  Polygamy law gets amazingly more complicated and the USA doesn’t have precedence on how to deal with it.

Example, say a guy had 3 wives, gets one more, then divorces #2.  Are the other 3 wives responsible for child support of the kids from wife #2?  What if something happens to the father, then do they have to pay for the ex’s kids?

What happens when a husband dies, and leave 3 wives, and 7 kids?  How is the property divided?  Does wife #1 get more?  What if wife #4 and he died on the wedding night?  Are they still married?  Does she get the same as wives #1 and #4.

Basically, today’s ruling does nothing regarding polygamy, other than to get people to think about it.

PS And let’s not forget some cultures have one wife and many husbands.  So then how would you know who is the bio father of the kids?  Would it matter?  They are both the kids dads.

TL/DR: Today's ruling regarding Marriage Equality was only in regards to a person's gender has no baring on you ability to marry them.  Has nothing to do with polygomy or any other aspect of marriage.



 

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Screamapillar said:

I think it's sad that "marriage equality" seems to only apply to homosexuals. What about a man who wants more than one wife, or a woman who wants more than one husband? Why are they denied the same privileges, if most of us seem to be in agreement that homosexuals ought to be lawfully allowed to marry?

Shouldn't "marriage equality" apply to all groups, and not just one or two groups? It seems very narrow, for people who claim to be so open-minded.

I might also add that I don't see how we've gotten to a point in the United States where we look to Washington, D.C. to answer all of our problems. Why do they need to validate everything for us? Why is marriage an issue of federal jurisdiction in the first place? People ought to marry whoever or whomever they choose in their home or in their church, and it's not the federal governments business whatsoever.

I say leave it entirely to the states, or leave it entirely to individuals to do what they choose. I'm very concerned that so many people are over-looking the dangerous road we've taken in this country. We seem to have this insatiable desire to have distant politicians decide things for us, and it's the exactly the opposite of how things ought to be.

Oh, those are completely separate things.  Please see my other post.

Ah, most significant rights of marriage, a whole 1,000+ plus only come from the Federal Government.  That is why it has to be a federal case. 

Let's say Billy and Kelly go in for a marriage license.  They all check through as available and such, but ops, the only thing that would stop their marriage in California yesterday was their gender.  If they are male-female they could get married, but if female-female yesterday they could not.  Now that single barrier of gender can no longer determined their ability to wed each other.

The reason is called Marriage Equality, because it grants equal marriage rights to both genders. 

A man could marry a man or a woman, and visa versa.



 

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killerzX said:

Man, this is what i hate most about the pro-homosexual couples marriage croud. they are intentionally dishonest. They manpulate and twist the wording of the argument, by using terms like marriage equality. When they no full well, its not, its not equal marriage. there are still numerous forms of marriage that are still excluded, or never mentioned by this crowd. perhaps becuase it puts them in an uncomfortable position, it exposes the hypocrasy, or they only selectively care about the type of "marriage equality.

i wonder if this ruling will have any ramifacations on other forms of marriage, like polygamous, incest, mom marrying son, marrying dad, and cousin. 3 guys and 15 wives. brother sister, what have you. Maybe now there'll be a push to lower the age of consent, why do people discriminate against the pediphile that wants to marry that 16 year old. they love each other! why 18, why not 17, 16, 15 or even 12. most people (especially girls have reached puberty by that point).

 

for the record i am neither for nor against gay couples marriage. im for the government getting out of marriage all together.

Hey, going to have to repeat myself a bit here, but let me explain. Those are completely separate things.  I have no idea what you would called that, but it is not making equal both genders the ability to marry either gender.

 

Let's say Billy and Kelly go in for a marriage license.  They all check through as available and such, but ops, the only thing that would stop their marriage in California yesterday was their gender.  If they are male-female they could get married, but if female-female yesterday they could not.  Now that single barrier of gender can no longer determined their ability to wed each other.

The reason is called Marriage Equality, because it grants equal marriage rights to both genders. 

A man could marry a man or a woman, and visa versa.   Polygamy, Incest, age of consent, etc have nothing to do with Marriage Equality.

 



 

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Kasz216 said:
It went exactly as I said it would from the start.

Told you so.

Yes, yes, you did and I am glad it worked out that way!



 

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Zappykins said:
Kasz216 said:
Zappykins said:
BloodyRain said:
At this rate, they should just make all 50 states allow it. I do see heavy resistance in more southern states though.

Well, to be fair, a marriage community place in Alabama was the 3rd place to offer same sex marriages (not legal rights with those though.)

So who do you think will be first Mississipppi or Utah?

It'd be Utah by far.  Not only is it a younger state, mormons are a lot more self focused then most people.  So they could eaisly vote for gay marriage while still thinking it's wrong and a sin.


I'd guess a Federal ruling or law happens first though.  Or at least before Mississippi.

Do you realize that not only Prop 8, but most all of the anti-marriage laws of the last years have been in most parts led by the Mormon Church and their follower?  (I bet you actually do, you are pretty connected.)

That being said, they really took alot of heat for not only defeating the Equal Rights Amendment for Women in the 1970's but also for sponsoring Prop 8 in an underhanded way.  I do realize many Mormons do support same-sex marriage and have been both horrified and disgusted by the actions of their church.  I'm sure others are tired of being the bad guys, and wish the few of those leaders would stop messing in the legal status of other people’s families.

Plus, around half of Utah is not Mormon anymore.  So you are probably correct.  But it could be both at the same time.  I could see couples getting married all across the country in states that allow it, and then going to their home state and suing to have it recognized under the "Full Faith and Credit Clause."  (Can you make class-action lawsuits across states?  They seemed to with the Tobacco Case a few years ago.)

Today was a huge win, but one vote in either way on either case could have set rights back a few years.

 

 

I think the difference here is in what the church is doing, and what people believe.

For example, Catholic church is really anti-gay.  Most American Catholics support gay marraige.  (or maybe i'm thinking aborition, but either way.)

I mean shit, big corporations don't donate to the same people the majority of their workers support.

 

The real sad part though is combing DOMA and the Voting rights act.   They were both ruled unconsitutional, for pretty much the exact same reason!  5-4 splits both ways...

Yet the votes were essentially mirrored.

The Supreme court often gets it right.... but almost exclusvily due to Roberts annd Kennedy.  One of whom is usually willing to put aside what they want the law to be or what the law should be.... instead of what it is.

Even if you are like Scalia or Kagan and think the law your voting to support is vitally important to the health of the nation... if it's not consitutional.  That's how you should rule.

 

Either way, I generally expect gay marraige to get to around 2/3rds acceptance in the states, then the Supreme Court ot make another ruling supporting gay marriage everywhere via the same anti-discrimination rulings that were used to strike down interacial marriage bans.



Striking down of DOMA means you'll never see a federal law force one side or the other in terms of marriage. So while the short sighted view is that this is a wonderful day for same sex marriage (yada yada) it actually means it will still keep the states heavily against it in the clear without threat from a federal mandate.

It's the only reason why I praised the ruling. Power back to the states. This entire round of decisions has been knocking back federal power.