Oh sorry I saw your profile and though you were from Colombia.

Ah interesting. I plan to do the same thing when I'm finished with university as well. Down under has always interested me. But that may take a while since I want to go to Brazil for the world cup. If you do come to our side of the world, be sure to come when it is carnival season. You'll NEVER regret it. ;)

Thanks man. :)

I'm only just being exposed to Latina women now that I'm at University, I come from the country where it's pretty ethnically homogenous, pretty much just caucasians. It's a whole new world of multicultural beauty out there!

I'll be attempting to stay faithful however, as I entered into my current relationship without any kind of "non-exclusivity" clause. I guess I never figured the temptation would arise because up until I met her, I never had any luck with women. If I do decide I can't handle th pressure, I'll probably break up rather than cheat, or at least try to see if she's up for a more open relationship.

Also, do either of you know why there's this gender imbalance Weedlab speaks of? Do a lot of men get killed, or emigrate?

The irony of this post is that 95% of the time the people who talk like this are the ones who have no sex life

Oh no worries amigo. You are not wrong. I was born there but grew up in the other countries I mentioned above. I moved a lot between my parents different locations.

What time of year is carnival season?

And if you come here, just make sure you don't come during the summer, it gets hellishly hot. ;)

Cuba and the majority of Caribbean islands have them around the summer time. Trinidad, Brazil and Colombia have their carnival in February. This may be inconvenient for some due to the timing, so summer time carnival in the Caribbean may be better. But they're not as nice as the 3 aforementioned places. ;) Well, with the exception of Cuba of course. You are guaranteed to have fun - be it alone or with your partner (but I'm sure she would find it odd you went to carnival for yourself :D)

Nope. I mean if you know it's gonna break the other person if they found out and you care about them, how could you do that? Never understood it and won't do it.

Well I guess if your someone like Rafux who openly declares he is in a open relationship to the woman, then it is ok if you are into that sort of thing. Cheating when you know your partner is faithful and would be devastated is another matter all together and that says something is wrong with the person at their core.

I have never cheated with my girl. Shes Colombian/Ecuadorian, a nice combination :). Sure I check out women throughout my day, I have been asked out by other women while dating my girl, but I never act on any of it. Look but dont touch, that sort of thing.

When your feeling unfaithful, jerking off seems to do the trick

I never planned on cheating. I was as square as they come. Didn't lose my virginity until I was weeks away from turning 22 (and I had been in the Air Force. How the heck do you join the military and STILL not get laid!?). Never drank. Never did drugs. Never partied. Didn't even have a girlfriend in High School. Didn't plan on losing my virginity until marriage. I was as innocent and naive as they come. Just like many of you here, I never planned on cheating and I despised the idea of it and couldn't comprehend why anybody would do that to someone they "loved".

Well, there's an old saying: "A man is a loyal as his options"

I never was the kind of person that had a bunch of guy friends. Later on, in life, I always had an easier time talking to women. They view was much better. They always thought the stuff I said was funny. I was the center of attention. That was all well and good. Anyway, things happened.

Long story, short: It's easy to say "I'll never cheat" when you don't have self confidence or you aren't attractive or you don't have a lot of attention. When you have girls throwing themselves at you, telling you how bad your relationship is and how they'd be a better girlfriend, jumping into your car asking to see your penis (True story), and popping up at your house at night--then, tell me how loyal you are. Yeah, it was selfish and yes I was a dog and yes, I hurt someone that loved me. If I had it to do all over again, I think I'd still do it.

Feel free to judge me.