When I was younger I cheated on my then girlfriend fairly often, and I didn't feel guilty at the time. You're only young once so I figured it is best to take advantage of my youth, especially since they knew I was in a relationship and came on their own will. ;) But then she found out and it REALLY got to her. So much so that we could not work it out and it more or less changed her. Sadly that was the first girl I actually cared for and the one I actually wanted to settle down with. So, from then and there I decided cheating was not worth it. Even if you don't feel guilty you have to consider how it affects others (there are a lot more stakeholders than just you, your girl and the other woman). To me, if you cheated on your girl it's a sign something is either wrong on your end or her end, and that should be enough reason to reevaluate your relationship.

This right here is the pussyfication of America. There's nothing wrong with cheating it actually helps the relationship just try to not get caught or be honest and open about it.

Why? Whats wrong with liking women and enjoying sex? It doesn't matter how cool or beautiful your girl is it comes a time where you get bored of her and cheating actually reignites the relationship and makes it exciting again.

LOL! It's funny you mention that. Just last week a friend of mine told me cheating saves her relationship. It gets her to 'appreciate' her man more someway. She said if it wasn't for that she would have left him a long time ago. End result justify the means? lol I can't help but feel sorry for the guy though. :/

Get bored of their partner, meet someone else hot with whom they have chemistry, and decide to take the plunge?

There's nothing wrong with that. I'm still young so I say it is best to enjoy your youth. But, in my opinion, if you're in a serious relationship and you're cheating then it either tells me that you're not ready for a relationship of that capacity or there's something wrong on her end that's getting you to cheat. So to me if you're in a serious relationship and either of those are occuring then maybe you should reevaluate it.

There's nothing wrong with sex though - including multiple partners. If you're a ' free agent' all the better. With that said I do not judge how other people handle their business. So cheat or not it's not my business.

I've cheated and have never felt guilty about it. I've also helped women (3 that I know for sure) cheat on their boyfriends. Still never felt guilty about it. In my early teens I always used to jerk off to fantasies of taken women, and I think it's just part of my nature. Everyone is unique.

No i have never cheated. I dont see the point in that. I can only focus on one person at a time and that's all i need. If i dont like her then ill break up with her but im not going to put somebody through that kind of pain and suffering.

The answer is simple.

The person they are with tick 80% of the boxes, like cash, home, family, cooking (lol hard to get a woman that is great at both or whilling to do both). The one thing they don't tick is the sex part or good looks. So they get that elsewhere.

This is why it works in france. Women get the stability from the man to raise a family but let them get the sex elsewhere.

This is exactly why humanity is fucked. You must be mental to think cheating helps a relationship. Seriously. There is no excuse for it. Break up with them if you want to see someone else. You're a real piece of shit if you cheat on your partner (anyone who has/does), doesn't matter who it is whether you can admit the truth or not. The only excuse for it is if it happened to you or you really get treated like shit.