Rafux said:
Weedlab said:
When I was younger I cheated on my then girlfriend fairly often, and I didn't feel guilty at the time. You're only young once so I figured it is best to take advantage of my youth, especially since they knew I was in a relationship and came on their own will. ;) But then she found out and it REALLY got to her. So much so that we could not work it out and it more or less changed her. Sadly that was the first girl I actually cared for and the one I actually wanted to settle down with. So, from then and there I decided cheating was not worth it. Even if you don't feel guilty you have to consider how it affects others (there are a lot more stakeholders than just you, your girl and the other woman). To me, if you cheated on your girl it's a sign something is either wrong on your end or her end, and that should be enough reason to reevaluate your relationship.
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Why? Whats wrong with liking women and enjoying sex? It doesn't matter how cool or beautiful your girl is it comes a time where you get bored of her and cheating actually reignites the relationship and makes it exciting again.
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There's nothing wrong with that. I'm still young so I say it is best to enjoy your youth. But, in my opinion, if you're in a serious relationship and you're cheating then it either tells me that you're not ready for a relationship of that capacity or there's something wrong on her end that's getting you to cheat. So to me if you're in a serious relationship and either of those are occuring then maybe you should reevaluate it.
There's nothing wrong with sex though - including multiple partners. If you're a ' free agent' all the better. With that said I do not judge how other people handle their business. So cheat or not it's not my business.
