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Not really sure how to classify myself, sexually. I mean, I generally tend to identify as straight because the idea of being with a man is...well, it's unappealing to me. Probably just a natural aversion to members of the same sex. However, the things I like, I like from any source, and a pretty significant amount of the porn I watch is gay (about 20-30%), and if I'm in a particularly kinky mood, I'm even able to enjoy gay sex. I mean, I don't look for gay sex, but I'm open enough with my sexuality that I'm able to enjoy it, even if I wish it was with a female.

I believe the term is "bisexual with a heavy straight lean", or a 2 on the Kinsey scale.

Either way, I've always been a very strong supporter of Gay Rights. It's one of the many reasons I take such offense to the idea of the church pushing its agenda as 'true morals'.

but yeah, mostly straight, can enjoy gay stuff even if doing stuff with dudes isn't what I actively look for in a relationship or encounter.



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axumblade said:
Tom3k said:
I'm pure. I've never dated a girl. To be honest I kissed one or two back in days and I didn't like it (stubble makes it so much better).

About kids? I don't know yet. I know that I want to have a chance to freely choose, and not law to make that decision for me. I have a nephew and a niece and that's as much kids as I can handle atm.

oh my god yes....My bf has a beard and it feels so good rubbing against my face. :)

I have nephews and neices too and to be honest, I really don't like the way my sister and brother raised their kids.

Haha I have to agree with this. Beards are one of the sexiest things on a man, the look sexy as hell and feel so awesome.

I guess I would count as unpure... I have had a little experience with girls, but more than enough for me to know it just wasn't my thing lol



I wish you guys luck for those who want to be parents, it's unfortunate how far we are from equal adoptions rights (maybe even further than gay marriage), even if laws for this ever get passed we would still be facing a whole bunch of crap with adoption. Especially with all the idiots that believe gay people are trying to convert a new generation of flaming homosexuals that will destroy civilised society or something like that.

I've never wanted kids, in fact I would much prefer not to have kids lol But it's not absolute in my case. It would depend on how much I care for the guy, what he wants, and how much I wanted the relationship to work. But I would have to want him a whole frickin lot though lol.

OT: If it wasn't clear by now I am also a gaymer and think it would be cool to be on the list :)

@ Runa: That's a tough case. Usually I would just say avoid labelling yourself, but in this case, for sake of consistency, you can fit in with our other ambiguously gay member as a Groupie.



Ugh I've slept with two girls. And I'm an adamant bottom?! That was a long time ago now though like 8 years. Sometimes when I'm sick to the back teeth of men I've wondered about it again but I love being the bitch too much? Oh well.



You can include me in the hetero support team.

I have a friend of mine who used to be a man but living full time as a woman now. I helped her with all the initial stuff. Like the makeup, clothes, lending my support and listening ear. Heck I even introduced her current boyfriend to her and they have been together for more than a year already.



You are the answer to every prayer I've offered.

You are a song, a dream, a whisper, and I don't know how I could have lived without you for as long as I have.

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Chunli said:
You can include me in the hetero support team.

I have a friend of mine who used to be a man but living full time as a woman now. I helped her with all the initial stuff. Like the makeup, clothes, lending my support and listening ear. Heck I even introduced her current boyfriend to her and they have been together for more than a year already.


You are a cool friend then. ;3



axumblade said:
Runa216 said:
Not really sure how to classify myself, sexually. I mean, I generally tend to identify as straight because the idea of being with a man is...well, it's unappealing to me. Probably just a natural aversion to members of the same sex. However, the things I like, I like from any source, and a pretty significant amount of the porn I watch is gay (about 20-30%), and if I'm in a particularly kinky mood, I'm even able to enjoy gay sex. I mean, I don't look for gay sex, but I'm open enough with my sexuality that I'm able to enjoy it, even if I wish it was with a female.

I believe the term is "bisexual with a heavy straight lean", or a 2 on the Kinsey scale.

Either way, I've always been a very strong supporter of Gay Rights. It's one of the many reasons I take such offense to the idea of the church pushing its agenda as 'true morals'.

but yeah, mostly straight, can enjoy gay stuff even if doing stuff with dudes isn't what I actively look for in a relationship or encounter.

One of my friends actually falls into the same category as you do. Would you like to be added to the list because you have bisexual tendencies? I'd even put you under the straight alliance if you'd rather be listed there.

Also, just letting everybody know, I updated the OP because somebody addressed the possibility of there being users that identify as Asexual over anything else.

best to put me in the Bi section, since, as stated, I am bi with a straight lean. 

Funny thing is, I'm a size queen! Total bottom!  I have enough large and extra large toys to make a german dominatrix blush!  



My Console Library:

PS5, Switch, XSX

PS4, PS3, PS2, PS1, WiiU, Wii, GCN, N64 SNES, XBO, 360

3DS, DS, GBA, Vita, PSP, Android

axumblade said:
Marucha said:

I have two friends, one who is close to me since high school and one who I have known for a long time who is transgender. In high school, I had asked the first friend if she thought her sexual pref was a psychological thing or if it were natural since birth and she said since birth... her word was good enough for me.

Houston has a very accepting community despite what the media wants to paint about Texas' intolerance. The minority is actually the majority here. We have a very large hispanic population, as well as black, and also some vietnamese. Where I went to school, I was one of the few caucasians. Our mayor is an out of closet lesbian. I was surprised when she was elected because I was living in MD at the time. Actually, not really I guess... there is very active LGBT community here, especially around Montrose area. Gay pride parade goes on annually there as well with streets lined with rainbow flags. Lots of cool shops, restaurants, such down there... very metro. I actually think it would be a good place to visit, if you do find yourself this direction... of course, a large Christian population and churches everywhere. Even a few buddhist temples. Haha, and also a lot of strip clubs or just clubs in general. So yeah, all types live here. Very diverse city.

I would say politically, Houston is more democrat because of the minorities, but that also there is a lot of voter apathy... to me, in reality it seems like it's half and half, but then you also have a lot of independents . But many people, especially young folk, they don't think their voice matters, so they don't vote. And to be honest, if you watch the news, I can't blame them for their opinion... I would feel the same way because just seems like nobody 'gets them' or cares about their actual condition.

Yeah, the nasties still come out, but you will get that anywhere. People used to call me 'whitey' sometimes, but I used to just ignore them because it was out of ignorance. The only time I ever got really hot angry about the discrimination was when they used to talk down at my mother, who is crippled with a condition called "Dystonia". That angered me a lot, when they used to talk bad about her walking... people do like to stare, and it does anger me sometimes still, but I just give them a look right back. I noticed though the less you bother yourself with it and the happier you are, the less it seems to happen... I think people want to "pity" you and it makes them feel better about their own life standard. However, if you are having fun and are happy person, generally then they have nothing else to make fun of... and happiness is infectious, just as miserable-ness is as well.

Anyway, not all that super important. I just thought I would share.

I've always heard good things about Houston (a former coworker moved there recently).  I've only met 1 transgendered person and she was a bitch. She was the type of person who turns into a bitch when she has to wait more than 2 seconds in a line. I have a low tolerance for impatient people.

haha, one of the girls (who identifies as male) I don't know very well, but we met on an internet forum when I was a teenager. So I can't say for sure everything about her personally, but she isn't outright mean or anything. She can be a little blunt sometimes in a humorous way when someone says something obviously stupid/discriminating. She is super liberal.

My bestie from high school, she (also identifies as male), she used to identify as a lesbian for a while, but figured out later she was technically 'transgendered' feeling that she/he was born in the wrong body. Neither of them have had operations. The first doesn't feel it's necessary to change her biology, and the second is considering it. She is one of the most decent people I know out of most friends I've had, is really laid back, but has love problems just like anyone else... very kind hearted though.



I can't imagine how hard it must be for a transgendered person to find love. I've talked to guy who's going through the transformation right now (man to woman) and I honestly don't know if I'd have the guts to go through with it in their situation.



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In my entire life I have yet to meet an actual transgender person. Maybe I have and never noticed it though. I'm currently doing a phd and I honestly can't picture anyone in my field getting a job in academia. It's so hard to get a job as a lecturer in the first place that I believe transgender people would never get an equal/fair chance.

I hope this doesn't come off wrong.
(that's from my experience in the uk at least. maybe in the states it's different)