Eh, for some, being gay doesn't really affect my life at all.

I think some guys would be better off gay and make their lives easier (the types that go banging loads of girls impregnating them)

Everything would be less complicated, I consider myself bi but more of the gay side. I'm still "closeted" I fear that my Christian family will not accept me, my friends will no longer talk to me, gay hate crimes, etc. Finding someone is a challenge within itself because you can't really tell unless someone is the "stereotypical" gay type (no offense to those guys). I'd love to be fully straight, I've gotten many offers from women it's just that they're not my type. If I was "normal" I'd probably be happy dating someone like everyone else I know, It's been unbelievably stressful. 

I think that you should talk with someone. A councelor, therapist...

But from my point of view things are usually as complicated as you make them. I was much happier when I realized that I'm living my life, for myself. Not for my mom, or my Catholic family. My friends however are really great about it, as is my brother. Hate crimes? Hate crimes happen all the time, not just towards LGBT people. There's no point living your life in fear simply because there are idiots in this world. Well, if you want to find a gay guy to date, you should either frequent places where gay people go, or use social apps targeted at gay people. There's like billion of them, and yes most of them are glorified hook-up apps, but believe me there are people looking for same things as you on those apps as well.

If you haven't realized by now you are normal. You just happen to be gay. I would love to be taller... But you can't change the cards you've been dealt to play this game called life. So deal with it. When you "accept" yourself for what you are, when you learn to love youself for who you are, and when you stop living your life in shame/fear... You'll be much happier and healthier person.

Sorry to hear about your family, if your friends were true friends tho they would accept for you who you are, if they don't than they're not worth having. I understand you not wanting to lose them and be isolated though. Where in the US are you? Sounds like the south!

You could use websites to find other guys??

If you wanna chat sometime (not just about this) feel free to PM me!

Straight, nothing beats a woman on her knee sucking my d*ck and telling me how delicious it is.

lol you wanna date him Seece?

No I just don't like to see others struggle with something I can help with, especially as for me it's the polar opposite!

Straight, even though I may have a hard time convincing people I am.

It has nothing to do with having issues with your own sexuality.  You have an opinion on this but it really is one of little basis since you don't know what it feels like to be a straight man any more than I understand what it feels like to be a gay man.

For the record I don't have an issue being around gay men.  My secretary is a gay man.  I have good friends that are gay man.  However, I don't enjoy gay actions or being hit on/touched by gay men.  I find man-man gay sex to be revolting.  It's nothing mean, or discriminatory, or anything else.  I just inherently find it gross.  The same instinct that makes me want to rub my face in boobs and lick a vagina makes me think body hair and penises are gross.  Just the way it is, and it's perfectly natural, as natural as your attraction to other men is.  And as I said I don't mind being around gay men, but I can appreciate another straight man not enjoying it and choosing to avoid it.  I was recently at a party where a gay friend wanted to put a flower in my hair.  I did not like this.  I wouldn't like it if a straight man wanted to do that either, but a straight man wouldn't want to.  I should also state that I wouldn't like it if a woman I found gross got touchy or forward either.  But I only find some women gross to be close to while I find all men gross to be close to.  I think it's important to appreciate that while being gay isn't "wrong", it also isn't "wrong" for a straight man to not enjoy gay behavior.  It's only wrong if you cause hurt or harm because of your feelings.

I wouldn't necessarily say that.  There issues when you have a sample from a voluntary population.  This is pure speculation, but I'd be willing to wager that a larger portion of straight males have nothing to do with computers, social media and forums than gay men.  Speaking personally, almost all of my straight friends don't touch internet forums and many are into activities like hunting or fishing and would be tough to get to touch even Facebook very often.  In contrast, 100% of my gay friends are hugely into social media such as FB, Pinterest, etc.  Secondly, I think you are far more likely to get people to LIE about their sexuality on the internet.  Quiete honestly, I could be a trisexual woman and you wouldn't know and will never know.