| Seece said: Another gay thread another load of dumb generalisations and passive aggressive insecure homophobia! Being around gay males shouldn't make you feel uneasy, if it does then IMO you have issues with your own sexuality. Also, leave it to straight guys that don't like gays to tell us "the majority are feminine ect" No, leave that to the people that actually socialise with gay people. The answer is, most are not. How would you know tho? You have no idea if any of the straight acting guys you come across are actually gay. |
It has nothing to do with having issues with your own sexuality. You have an opinion on this but it really is one of little basis since you don't know what it feels like to be a straight man any more than I understand what it feels like to be a gay man.
For the record I don't have an issue being around gay men. My secretary is a gay man. I have good friends that are gay man. However, I don't enjoy gay actions or being hit on/touched by gay men. I find man-man gay sex to be revolting. It's nothing mean, or discriminatory, or anything else. I just inherently find it gross. The same instinct that makes me want to rub my face in boobs and lick a vagina makes me think body hair and penises are gross. Just the way it is, and it's perfectly natural, as natural as your attraction to other men is. And as I said I don't mind being around gay men, but I can appreciate another straight man not enjoying it and choosing to avoid it. I was recently at a party where a gay friend wanted to put a flower in my hair. I did not like this. I wouldn't like it if a straight man wanted to do that either, but a straight man wouldn't want to. I should also state that I wouldn't like it if a woman I found gross got touchy or forward either. But I only find some women gross to be close to while I find all men gross to be close to. I think it's important to appreciate that while being gay isn't "wrong", it also isn't "wrong" for a straight man to not enjoy gay behavior. It's only wrong if you cause hurt or harm because of your feelings.
