Your first sentence doesn't really make much sense. But I'll take a stab at it.

Loving someone, truly loving someone, is way more important than being a sex toy. I hope everyone would know that.

She's been sexually active... For non-virgins, sex comes before love usually. But what you say is true.

Your first sentence doesn't really make much sense. But I'll take a stab at it.

Loving someone, truly loving someone, is way more important than being a sex toy. I hope everyone would know that.

Hi!  So I don't know if you remember the "19 and still virgin" thread, but in this thread, I talked about a girl I met at the job.  She was basically the girl of my dream!  She broke up with her bf!  And now we are almost bf/gf.  Almost immediatly after she broke up, she went with me.

A friend of her did some stuff with her ex, and that is still bothering her.  Also she does not want other people to know we hang out with each other.  She doesnt want me to say "I love you".  She told me she wants to have sex soon, but she told me that she want to live our relationship smoothly and at slow pace.

I want it to be official!  I love that girl!  Sometime I just feel like a friend with benifit, to replace her ex!  It makes me so sad to even think she could do that!  When I'm with her, we kiss and stuff!  We rarely kiss when her family is around.  She doesn't hold my hand in public.

GIRLS ARE SO COMLPICATED!!!

We broke up.  I want to die...

She said she liked me but not fully loved me.  She said that there's a lot going on in her life and she needs to be alone now.  She said that she may not be meant to be in couple.  She felt hypocrite and felt like a true bitch to have taken my virginity and dump me after a couple of weeks.  I'm still crying.  Can't get over the fact that the person I loved the most could do this to me.

She said its better that way.  Im completely demolished.