This ^.

Bingo. I'd let her down gently...

She seems to be the type that needs more time. You're not in a rush, be very very patient. In time, she'll either turn to you, or you'll find something more mutual with someone else (assuming she still hesitates by then).

My experience personally is: you don't find someone you really love very often. So my word of advice is, be patient, and enjoy your time with her. Whether y ou end up together or not is not what matters in the end. What matters is that you're fulfilled. And you can be fulfilled with or without her, that is a fact.

My advice, emotionally detach but stay with her and don't get emotionally attached again until you're sure you're in a legit relationship. I however don't know if you are capable of emotionally detaching, but if you can, it will reduce your pain greatly if this turns out to be a rebound relationship.

I was a virgin with my exfiance and she was experienced... She helped me a bit and even says the sex was good and she even speaks fondly of our first time. It was not awkward at all because she knew i was a virgin...

How long you known her? Not that long it sounds, you can't love her. That's just a desperation thing thinking you do or feeling you do.

Of course I could be wrong, an intimate connection at first sight does happen and things can progress fast emotionally but that can't be the case here from what you have said.

Also, she sounds like a childish fool and is enjoying being the one in control....All par for the course unfortunately in relationships with most women under the age of 25 at the beginning.

Oh yeah one more thing, they aren't "complicated", they are actually very simple - it's your feelings that are making this feel complicated. The reason you have feelings like you do is down to how she is not treating you right by being CLEAR and COMMUNICATING CLEARLY. If she was clear, you would know where you stand and stupid crap like being able to tell her "I love you" wouldn't be an issue for you or make you sad.

You just want clarity son. :)

This is the problem with young women who aren't sure what they want, be fucking careful and don't chase too much for what you want. Let things roll along at their own pace - do what YOU want.

It's approximately 100,000,000 times easier to say than do when you are lead by your emotions - but believe me - being lead by your emotions is a dangerous thing and a very big gamble unless it's with someone of substance and a known quantity. This is clearly not the case so whatever you do, don't go "all in". Unless you want that heartbroken feeling for the next 6-18 months when it goes wrong.

Not worth it, for yourself.

You can't tell her 'I love you' yet she already wants to have sex.

Okay...

When you have sex and telling someone you love them has absolutely nothing to do with one another. You're 13, you'll learn :) If you really are 13 anyways.

Yup! That is the way to have a perfect relationship.

Your first sentence doesn't really make much sense. But I'll take a stab at it.

Loving someone, truly loving someone, is way more important than being a sex toy. I hope everyone would know that.