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Gilmour said:

She told me that she had not said "I love you" to her ex for about 2 months into their relationship (which lasted 6 months).  I must say that her parents know about me, and they know a bit about our relationship.  She talked about me to some of her close friends.  But she doesn't seem ready to make it official even though she told me she want to have sex soon...  I'm not sure if you can call me a rebound guy, but I'd hate that!

She seems to be the type that needs more time. You're not in a rush, be very very patient. In time, she'll either turn to you, or you'll find something more mutual with someone else (assuming she still hesitates by then).

My experience personally is: you don't find someone you really love very often. So my word of advice is, be patient, and enjoy your time with her. Whether y ou end up together or not is not what matters in the end. What matters is that you're fulfilled. And you can be fulfilled with or without her, that is a fact.