Hi!  So I don't know if you remember the "19 and still virgin" thread, but in this thread, I talked about a girl I met at the job.  She was basically the girl of my dream!  She broke up with her bf!  And now we are almost bf/gf.  Almost immediatly after she broke up, she went with me.

A friend of her did some stuff with her ex, and that is still bothering her.  Also she does not want other people to know we hang out with each other.  She doesnt want me to say "I love you".  She told me she wants to have sex soon, but she told me that she want to live our relationship smoothly and at slow pace.

I want it to be official!  I love that girl!  Sometime I just feel like a friend with benifit, to replace her ex!  It makes me so sad to even think she could do that!  When I'm with her, we kiss and stuff!  We rarely kiss when her family is around.  She doesn't hold my hand in public.

GIRLS ARE SO COMLPICATED!!!

Oh boy.

Does that mean that I'm in a f***ing mess? xD

This sounds like a rebound. Rebound isn't fun.

This. Enjoy being a fuck buddy.

Man that sucks pretty bad!  Though I'm pretty sure she has fellings for me.  Just by the way she smiles when we are kissing :)  That gives me hope!

Sounds like your moving too fast for her. To avoid making it too easier on her you need to slow down and play it cool. Girls hate the guy whose all over their shit, especially since your in rebound territory.

Her parents know about me, they knew about me even before I met them!  She also talked about me to her friends...  She also told her friend that slept with her ex that she met someone else (me).  Though I find it weird that I can't even say "I love you"

Dude, you're her rebound ass. Everything you're saying is exactly what girls do right after they break up but they're not over their ex yet. Like others have said, I'd go very slowly with this chick and not try to get my hopes up (though I think you already have). If she does like you, then let the relationship build slowly. Love doesn't blossom immediately.

she broke up with him, and she thought about doing so for a month...  Her boyfriend really behaved like a real asshole but she tried to remain nice :S