First thing, I don't know if there's any conclusive evidence on this subject, but last thing I heard, frequent ejaculation actually reduces the chance of getting prostate cancer later in life. So men should definitely not hold back on masturbation/sex in that regard.

As for remaining pure until marriage, I don't see what the point is. It might create a stronger bond between two people if they're not allowed to have sex, but have to keep their hands of eachother, but I don't think it's something special. My girlfriend and I have had sex for almost as long as we've been together, and we have an incredible bond and a very mature relationship.

If you find a person you really want to be with, there's no reason the two of you can't have sex.

EDIT: And to clarify, when I say I don't think a bond created between two people waiting to have sex until after marriage is special, I mean it's not a unique bond. You can bond just as well in other ways.

I say everyone should have a right to choose as they see fit.

Can I still rape? Since, you know, rape isn't considered making love.

You are wrong. Does that answer your question?

Absolutely not.

Quit joking. You rape you are losing your virginity. Stop trolling my thread with silly stuff. lol

Should I ask for forgiveness if I have a wet dream?

It's up to each person to live their life the way they choose. And, if you love someone, you should accept them regardless of things past.

the health people (what ever they are called) say that sex is one of the best workouts and is healthy to do it, it maybe be better with the one you love but at the end of the day sex is sex.

Couple this with the "gays shouldn't get married" argument. How will that work?