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sapphi_snake said:
Farmageddon said:

1. By normal I meant standard. I felt like that was obvious in context :P

It's not normal because it's not the "norm". Is anything wrong with that? No, but if you read what I wrote my whole point was that being unconfortable with/"not liking" (please don't interpret hate there) is natural and not, by itself, disrespectfull, and that the more different something is from the normaly accpeted, the more deviant, the more likely people are to not be confortable.

So if you want to call me a homophobe when I say affeminate guys or guys hooking up are not to my taste, go ahead and do so, but you're doing the entire "cause" a huge disservice when you cry enemy on someone who respects you and your choice and is in reality against the people who actually hurt you, specially when so many people fall in that category. You also show yourself extremely naive and unrealistic if you think everyone HAS to like you down to the very last aspect, including the more "extreme" ones.

And that was the pont of my examples. Also, it's not like "the majority" around here bashs or actually discriminates gays. That's NOT mainstream at all. It's frowned upon in many, many circles. It's actually a minority "within" the so called majority that will do that to any considerable degree. With those other groups I mentioned it's kind of the same thing. It's not hard to find people who despise machos or hippies, not any harder than it is to find people who actually ostracise gays. But I would venture a guess that it's harder to find people outside of their group actually defending them. All of this of course refers to the reality I perceive around here, I'm not talking on a global scale, even if I suspect much of this would hold.

2. Look, some people exagerate their suffering and minimize their own "sins". It's just true of the human condition. It's true of straight, gay, black, white, yellow, Christian, theist, Islamic, minority and majority. And it can be exacerbated given certain conditions or interests. To deny this is beyond ridiculous.

One example (of what I meant, not as much directly of this) is something player1x3 (I think) mentioned, that slavery is not just a white thing and that if whites had more slaves and were not slaves themselves it was just because they were capable of, not because everyone else was so noble. 

The point, I believe, is not that that measn white people are superior, but something more akin to you and me both trying to punch each other's face. Say I block you punch and hit you. Now I'm the awful person and you're the poor victim. That is how the reasoning seems to go, which is ridiculous. Truth is, we're both asses and the fact one of us pulled off his intentions while the other tried and failed shouldn't make a difference.

3. It was just meant to differentiate between them believing it's wrong to be gay and them being against gays themselves. I don't mean it like it's a decease or anything, relax. I take you have no problems with the rest of that point, tho.

4. Ok, and I need to see them not :P

sapphi_snake said:
salaminizer said:

it had videos that were meant to be shown to kids, for example, there was one featuring a transexual kid that was annoyed because the teachers would call him by his male name instead of his female name.

and about the "privileges", here in Brazil APPARENTLY (I couldn't confirm this, sorry) there were plans for quotas in public schools for gay teachers and scholarships for transexuals.

as I said, it's MOSTLY about intolerance, however, there's this increasing sense here in Brazil that if you're part of a minority the government will make your life easier (we have racial and social quotas for universities with absolutely questionable criteria)

LOL, that's like envying homeless people for getting free food and used clothes from charity.

LOL, that sounds like you actually understand the "absolutely questionable criteria" mentioned and the reality of the place he's talking about.

1. 'Your choice'? Seriously??? And there are certain parts of a person that you should be at worst, indifferent towards, but certainly not dislike, or hate.

2. Except , if you do hit me you are an evil attacker and I am a poor victim. You can only punish people for what they actually do (or so I've been told on other topics from this site). The fact that other people practice slavery doesn't get white people off the hook.

3. There's no difference between thinking it's wrong to be gay and  hating gays, considering homosexduality is ian intrinsec quality of homosexuals. It's like saying 'I don't hate men, I just hate penises. If they chose to castrate themselves, we'd be great friends'.

1. I'm not sure you're objecting to the term choice (as in it's who they are or something, I don't know) or, perhaps more likely, thought I was being literal with "your", which wasn't the case. Either way doesn't really affect the point I was making.

And come on, don't try to tell me what I'm allowed to dislike, that's absurd. And in a sense the examples I gave where not even "parts of a person" but some specific actions of a person. But really, you mean I'm somehow obligated, moraly or otherwise, to not dislike to see two guys hooking up? Please.

What matters is how I react to it. Calling me an homophobe for that, while it might pass some arbitrary definition check, is just short-sighted.

2. LOL. You attacked me just as much as I attacked you. We both wanted to do the same. And I was never talking about who deserves punishment, I was talking about cornering others into shame and portraying "yourself" as the poor innocent victim for something some ancestors from the other person did to "yours" even if "yours" would (and in many case did) do exactly the same.

This is not about punishment, it's pretty much the opposite, it's about being realistic and living in the present as opposed to living in a skewed one-dimensional past that never really existed.

Btw, please don't pretend I'm denying slavery or anything.

3. Of course there is. First of all thinking something is wrong is very different from hating something. Actually, I won't bother elaborating this much. Tell me, do you believe it's impossible for a christian to not hate gays, for exemple? Frankly, you sound delusional and paranoid to me :P

Btw, I don't see how having your rights would ever get in the way of one being proud, but w/e.



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mantlepiecek said:
sapphi_snake said:
Stefan.De.Machtige said:
sapphi_snake said:
Tino Vainamoinen said:
That's really dumb I have to say...You really can't be straight and proud I mean...YOU HAVE YOUR RIGHTS...Seriously...Like what else do you want and why do you want to parade around for? You have your fucking rights already.

This!

From what i read in this thread, the point of straight pride would be to show the "hypocritical nature" of organising pride parades.

It's about pointing out that big flaw in the old (lefitst) idea of two wrongs make a right.

Except that's a misinterpretation of the reason behind pride parades (or behind 'leftist' policies in general). All a 'straight pride' parade would accomplish is show how gay bashing is still OK (that's the entire purpose of it), and further confirm the necessity of 'leftist' policies.

tut tut....

When gays do it its to celebrate their sexuality, when straight do it its assumed that it would be gay bashing.

If you don't know, this is what is meant by double standards. Even christians had a reason behind gay bashing, doesn't mean it was ok. Having a reason doesn't make discrimination ok. Funny how you don't understand that.

Stop throwing around the word 'discrimination', when it has nothign to do with this situation. It's also not a double standard when you take into consideration the fact that:

a. heterosexuality is celebrated constantly in society;

b. gays don't really have many occasions to celebrate their sexuality;

c. Having a 'straight pride' parade is just a pleonasm, a perverse one, considering that it's purpose is to counter the so-called 'privileges' gays have.



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Stefan.De.Machtige said:
sapphi_snake said:
Stefan.De.Machtige said:
sapphi_snake said:
Tino Vainamoinen said:
That's really dumb I have to say...You really can't be straight and proud I mean...YOU HAVE YOUR RIGHTS...Seriously...Like what else do you want and why do you want to parade around for? You have your fucking rights already.

This!

From what i read in this thread, the point of straight pride would be to show the "hypocritical nature" of organising pride parades.

It's about pointing out that big flaw in the old (lefitst) idea of two wrongs make a right.

Except that's a misinterpretation of the reason behind pride parades (or behind 'leftist' policies in general). All a 'straight pride' parade would accomplish is show how gay bashing is still OK (that's the entire purpose of it), and further confirm the necessity of 'leftist' policies.

The true reason of the those leftsist policies is that they don't really believe in people - no mather who. Those policies only see victims.

It's not the policies that created victims. It's the abusers (be they racists, homophobes etc.) who created the victims. The policies just deal with the reality of the situation.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

sapphi_snake said:
mantlepiecek said:
sapphi_snake said:
Stefan.De.Machtige said:
sapphi_snake said:
Tino Vainamoinen said:
That's really dumb I have to say...You really can't be straight and proud I mean...YOU HAVE YOUR RIGHTS...Seriously...Like what else do you want and why do you want to parade around for? You have your fucking rights already.

This!

From what i read in this thread, the point of straight pride would be to show the "hypocritical nature" of organising pride parades.

It's about pointing out that big flaw in the old (lefitst) idea of two wrongs make a right.

Except that's a misinterpretation of the reason behind pride parades (or behind 'leftist' policies in general). All a 'straight pride' parade would accomplish is show how gay bashing is still OK (that's the entire purpose of it), and further confirm the necessity of 'leftist' policies.

tut tut....

When gays do it its to celebrate their sexuality, when straight do it its assumed that it would be gay bashing.

If you don't know, this is what is meant by double standards. Even christians had a reason behind gay bashing, doesn't mean it was ok. Having a reason doesn't make discrimination ok. Funny how you don't understand that.

Stop throwing around the word 'discrimination', when it has nothign to do with this situation. It's also not a double standard when you take into consideration the fact that:

a. heterosexuality is celebrated constantly in society;

b. gays don't really have many occasions to celebrate their sexuality;

c. Having a 'straight pride' parade is just a pleonasm, a perverse one, considering that it's purpose is to counter the so-called 'privileges' gays have.

I think I understand what you mean by a. Unfortunately just because something is constantly celebrated doesn't make it impossible to be celebrated more. And if someone wants to celebrate then he/she should have the right to do so. 

As for b. Then create opportunities for them to celebrate more. However one shouldn't try to keep how much one celebrates equal.

As for c. The way I read it, I thought it maybe a way to achieve gov equality. By granting them their parade the authorities are just giving something not taking anything away.



Farmageddon said:

1. I'm not sure you're objecting to the term choice (as in it's who they are or something, I don't know) or, perhaps more likely, thought I was being literal with "your", which wasn't the case. Either way doesn't really affect the point I was making.

And come on, don't try to tell me what I'm allowed to dislike, that's absurd. And in a sense the examples I gave where not even "parts of a person" but some specific actions of a person. But really, you mean I'm somehow obligated, moraly or otherwise, to not dislike to see two guys hooking up? Please.

What matters is how I react to it. Calling me an homophobe for that, while it might pass some arbitrary definition check, is just short-sighted.

2. LOL. You attacked me just as much as I attacked you. We both wanted to do the same. And I was never talking about who deserves punishment, I was talking about cornering others into shame and portraying "yourself" as the poor innocent victim for something some ancestors from the other person did to "yours" even if "yours" would (and in many case did) do exactly the same.

This is not about punishment, it's pretty much the opposite, it's about being realistic and living in the present as opposed to living in a skewed one-dimensional past that never really existed.

Btw, please don't pretend I'm denying slavery or anything.

3. Of course there is. First of all thinking something is wrong is very different from hating something. Actually, I won't bother elaborating this much. Tell me, do you believe it's impossible for a christian to not hate gays, for exemple? Frankly, you sound delusional and paranoid to me :P

4. Btw, I don't see how having your rights would ever get in the way of one being proud, but w/e.

1. I had a problem with the 'choice' part, not the 'your' part.

And you're free to dislike anyone for whatever reason. Doesn't change the fact that, for example, if you dislike a black person for being black, then you're a racist. Hating someone for an intrinsec quality, that ultimately doesn't affect you in any way, is just wrong.

And why do you dislike seeing two guys hook up? Do you also dislike seeing heterosexuals hook up? Have you never hooked up yourself? Do you also dislike the ideea of gays having romantic relationships, kissing or showing affection to eachother? These may be actions, but they're certainly determined by a need caused by a part that is intrinsec to gays.

2. Except, it's really not quite like that with slavery. Also, it's not as if discrimination and prejudice disappeared along with the evil ancestors, or that society hasn't perpetuated these evil practices. Also, you do seem like a slavery apologetic.

3. Thinking that an intrinsec quality of a person is wrong is actually quite a hateful thing to do. Especially when you yourself have a quality that is opposite to that. It's essentially how a certain category of people declare themselves to be the best, superior human being due to said feature, while all the other people who do not have such a feature are inferior. Examples:

a. The racist (dislikes people who do not share the same skin colour as him): I'm white, non-white skin colour is a sign of inferiority, being white is superior than being non-white;

b. The sexist (dislikes people of another sex): I'm a man, being a man is superior to being a woman, women are inferior to men;

c. The homophobe (dislikes people who do not share his sexual orientation): I'm heterosexual, anything that's not heterosexual is wrong, heterosexuals are superior to non-heterosexuals, they're more moral etc.

And I think that it's perfectly possible for a christian to not hate gays... provided he/she goes aginst christian teachings, or follows 'liberal' interpretations of those teachings. Christianity (in it's orthodox view) however, is one of the main (if not the main) opressors of homosexuals (and women for that matter).

4. I do not get what you were trying to say.



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mantlepiecek said:
sapphi_snake said:

Stop throwing around the word 'discrimination', when it has nothign to do with this situation. It's also not a double standard when you take into consideration the fact that:

a. heterosexuality is celebrated constantly in society;

b. gays don't really have many occasions to celebrate their sexuality;

c. Having a 'straight pride' parade is just a pleonasm, a perverse one, considering that it's purpose is to counter the so-called 'privileges' gays have.

1. I think I understand what you mean by a. Unfortunately just because something is constantly celebrated doesn't make it impossible to be celebrated more. And if someone wants to celebrate then he/she should have the right to do so. 

2. As for b. Then create opportunities for them to celebrate more. However one shouldn't try to keep how much one celebrates equal.

3. As for c. The way I read it, I thought it maybe a way to achieve gov equality. By granting them their parade the authorities are just giving something not taking anything away.

1. I'm glad that you're showing sings of finally understanding what I'm trying to tell you. Sadly, you still have not understood the full implications of a 'straight pride' parade.

2. Why not? Because homosexuals aren't/shouldn't be equal? Plus, this point kinda contradicts what you said in points 1 and 2, and reveals your double standards and homophobia.

3. Gays do not have equal rights to straights, so giving straights extra benefits (and an opportunity to express their superiority against gays) is really overkill. As I mentioned, 'straight pride' is the same thing as 'straight supremacy'.

From 1, 2, and 3 what I'm getting from you is that gays shouldn't be equal to straights (point 2), and there's nothign wrong with straights showing their supremacy to gays and having more rights than them (points 1 and 3). Essentially, you've just shown that you're homophobe. Congratulations!



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

sapphi_snake said:
mantlepiecek said:
sapphi_snake said:

Stop throwing around the word 'discrimination', when it has nothign to do with this situation. It's also not a double standard when you take into consideration the fact that:

a. heterosexuality is celebrated constantly in society;

b. gays don't really have many occasions to celebrate their sexuality;

c. Having a 'straight pride' parade is just a pleonasm, a perverse one, considering that it's purpose is to counter the so-called 'privileges' gays have.

1. I think I understand what you mean by a. Unfortunately just because something is constantly celebrated doesn't make it impossible to be celebrated more. And if someone wants to celebrate then he/she should have the right to do so. 

2. As for b. Then create opportunities for them to celebrate more. However one shouldn't try to keep how much one celebrates equal.

3. As for c. The way I read it, I thought it maybe a way to achieve gov equality. By granting them their parade the authorities are just giving something not taking anything away.

1. I'm glad that you're showing sings of finally understanding what I'm trying to tell you. Sadly, you still have not understood the full implications of a 'straight pride' parade.

2. Why not? Because homosexuals aren't/shouldn't be equal? Plus, this point kinda contradicts what you said in points 1 and 2, and reveals your double standards and homophobia.

3. Gays do not have equal rights to straights, so giving straights extra benefits (and an opportunity to express their superiority against gays) is really overkill. As I mentioned, 'straight pride' is the same thing as 'straight supremacy'.

From 1, 2, and 3 what I'm getting from you is that gays shouldn't be equal to straights (point 2), and there's nothign wrong with straights showing their supremacy to gays and having more rights than them (points 1 and 3). Essentially, you've just shown that you're homophobe. Congratulations!


wtf?

If I celebrate something more than the other person its my fuc*ing choice. Nothing to do with homophobia. This is not some competition to see who celebrates more.

You seriously don't even know what homophobia is.

Gays do not have equal rights? And that is the straight man's fault how? We have no authority over the public. Instead of disallowing the straight, they should have asked for rights from the gov. The same gov that is ok with disallowing the straight pride parade.

Sadly, you still have not understood the full implications of a 'straight pride' parade.

More like I am not assuming sh@t.

straights showing their supremacy.

So pride parade is showing supremacy?

and having more rights than them

lol. You clearly have some problems. More rights? I NEVER said that rights shouldn't be given to the gays. And I never said that rights should be taken away from them. Go read it again what I said.



@mantlepiecek:

If I celebrate something more than the other person its my fuc*ing choice. Nothing to do with homophobia. This is not some competition to see who celebrates more.

Now you're lost again. Damn, and it seemed like you were starting to get things...

You seriously don't even know what homophobia is.

I wonder if you do...

Gays do not have equal rights?

I don't believe they do.

And that is the straight man's fault how?

Ummm, you are aware that straights are the overwhelming majority, right? And you are aware that they make up most of the voting body and most of the Government, right? You could also read some books on the subject, but what I'd really like to know is how old are you? I get the feeling that you're a tween, which would make this conversation quite pointless.

So pride parade is showing supremacy?

A 'straight pride' parade sure is.

lol. You clearly have some problems. More rights? I NEVER said that rights shouldn't be given to the gays. And I never said that rights should be taken away from them. Go read it again what I said.

I did read it. Maybe you should. Repeatedly.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

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"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

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sapphi_snake said:

@Player1x3:

'White culture' and history IS ALREADY celebrated. It's called mainstream culture. If you open a history book that is used in schools, guess which race's history is presented?

First off, sorry it took me so long to respond. My computer got some sort of virus and it still has it and I am in Windows security mode right now, which is an absolute nightmare.

To get back to the point,you are either trying to piss me off or or you are just that ignorant on the topic, either way, its no wonder why people like you are looked down upon in Romania. First off, define me ''mainstream culture''. Every country, every region in the world has its culture, there is no such thing as mainstream culture. If you talk the west, loom at all the wiggers (wannabe blacks) trying to act black, dress like them, talk like them, ACT LIKE THEM. What is the most popular genre in the music today? Is it country songs? Oh no, its HIP HOP/RAP, something NOT part of white culture. All over the west, white youth tries to act like some black thugs from ghettos, wearing thier clothers speak like them act like them etc etc, so dont sell me that bullshit about how our culture is mainstream, its not even close to that. The last bit of our culture died off in the beginning of the60's when bunch of ugly neck bearded junkies decided to bitch at the government for thier life problems and tried to put some actual interest in thier pathetic lifes

/rant

Also, since when does history=culture? Im sure they are taching about history of Spain in countries such as Iraq, Iran, China and lets say...Indoensia. If there is one thing that connects the whites to the history of other non white countries, is that the whites used to colonise and conquer those countries. Every country has its own hisotry to teach

Oh, cmon now, you seriously think you are not self loathing? You hate Romania and Romanians,

I don't hate them, I just dislike them.

Oh, ok than, you dont hate yourself, you just dislike yourself. Pardon, my bad.

you despise christians and Christianity on global level

I'm not a christian, so this doesn't count as self loathing. And I don't hate christians, I just dislike their beliefs. Love the believer, not the belief (sorry, couldn't help myself ).

Well, you used to be, but that wasnt my point. My point was, is that you hate everything that people around you are and what you are/were as well. Thats pretty much self loathing to me


I am not a gypsy. I'm also pretty sure gypsies are caucasians also.

Gypsies? You mean Roma people /Ţigani /Cigani?They have extremly black colour of skin, they are no where near white nor caucasian, and I think they orginiate from India

I doubt there's anything I said that would suggest that.

Straightes shouldnt be proud of thier sexuality but gays should because they were persecuted, thats your point, You have some strange mixure of victim/superiority complex, as you seem to beleive that whoever was persecuted or whoever was a victim deserves a special treatment, and deserves more rights and privileges and is thus, superior.

WOW, thanks for revealing your true (racist) colours. It was about time.

You misunderstand, my point was, that the sentence above was the basic standpoint of your claim

Africans invented slavery? Got any proof of that?

Slavery as you know it, and slavery system as used in Eurpoean imperialism was founded in North Africa

And this makes iwhat whites did any better?

It doesnt, but it sure as hell removes white person's guild from thier back, something you strongly support





@Player1x3:

First off, sorry it took me so long to respond. My computer got some sort of virus and it still has it and I am in Windows security mode right now, which is an absolute nightmare.

Reinstall Windows.

To get back to the point,you are either trying to piss me off or or you are just that ignorant on the topic, either way, its no wonder why people like you are looked down upon in Romania.

I really don't put much weight in what the typical Romanian thinks of me. Nor do I put any weight into what people from non-existent countries think of me either.

First off, define me ''mainstream culture''.

The culture of the majority. Widely accepted culture.

Every country, every region in the world has its culture, there is no such thing as mainstream culture

Every country has it's own mainstream culture. When you say 'mainstream culture', or any type of culture for that matter, you have to limit yourself to just one country. There is no world state... yet.

If you talk the west, loom at all the wiggers (wannabe blacks) trying to act black, dress like them, talk like them, ACT LIKE THEM.

That's actually a subculture.

What is the most popular genre in the music today? Is it country songs?

In the US country songs are extremely popular. Country songs can be considered 'mainstream' in the US, but it would make no sense outside the US. And no, hip hop/rap is really not the most popular genre anywhere in the world. Country is actually a more popualr genre in the US (look at artists like Taylor Swift and Lady Antebellum). In Europe pop and dance are extremely popular. And rappers aren't that successful. The most successful rapper in the world (by far) is actually white (Eminem).

Also, since when does history=culture? Im sure they are taching about history of Spain in countries such as Iraq, Iran, China and lets say...Indoensia. If there is one thing that connects the whites to the history of other non white countries, is that the whites used to colonise and conquer those countries. Every country has its own hisotry to teach

I have no ideea what they teach in schools in Iran, Iraq, China, or Indonesia. I doubt they teach about Spain.

Gypsies? You mean Roma people /Ţigani /Cigani?They have extremly black colour of skin, they are no where near white nor caucasian, and I think they orginiate from India

Indians are considered caucasian, and so are gypsies. And I don't think you'ber ever actualyl seen a gypsy, because they do not have 'extremely black coloured skin'. Most of them just look slightly tanned.

Straightes shouldnt be proud of thier sexuality but gays should because they were persecuted, thats your point,

My point is that straights are already proud of their sexuality. They never were made to be ashamed of it, nor persecuted for it.

You have some strange mixure of victim/superiority complex, as you seem to beleive that whoever was persecuted or whoever was a victim deserves a special treatment, and deserves more rights and privileges and is thus, superior.

If you got this from wha tI said, I think you need to re-read it (over and over).

Slavery as you know it, and slavery system as used in Eurpoean imperialism was founded in North Africa

North Africa? The part where most people are arabs?

It doesnt, but it sure as hell removes white person's guild from thier back, something you strongly support

How does it do that? You yourself said that it doesn't erase white people's actions.



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)