Thanks for sharing your story dude.

That's make me sad and now I'm thinking how I can't forget the girl I love too. Maybe I have to do something about that.

Are there any other switches we need to know about?

Agreed...we're almost experts now, lol.

Rumour has it that girls have a talking on/off switch... but no men have ever found it!

The mute button on a Harmony One Universal Remote seems to have found it.

um.

the obvious one, if she's already joked/stated/implied that she doesnt like something. dont do it. because it will irritate her more and more each time until eventually she snaps at you. :( even if its something really really petty to begin with.

lke i am the most ticklish person ever. but i really hate it more than a wee teasing amount. and my ex used to try to win arguments by tickling me into submission. not my fault when he got kicked in the balls, it really was reflex.

but he knew i didnt like it and wouldnt stop doing it, even though i asked him over and over not to do it. see, just stupid things like that.

maybe i should make a thread about women lol. D:

A couple years back, I was interested in a girl and she became my friend. She already had a boyfriend, so obviously her receptors were "off". About 3 years later being only friend, one night we had a few drinks and she slept at my place, ill save the details. The next day she told me that she wanted to have a relationship with me. So I think that with time, its possible to be interested in someone you wasnt. But, the fact I didnt wanted that kind of relation with her anymore certainly helped. Women needs some challenge ; ). Though, making out with her was a very bad idea, I lost a very good friend. We were both single and I never thought she had this kind of interest for me. Too bad she decided to stop seeing me, but I respect this, and I think that is what GOW should do.

You totally should!  I think there's a lot of us here with loads of questions, LOL

You don't need a girl like that in your life, staying close with her will perpetuate the feelings and make you go crazy time and time again. Stay away from her is my advice, nothing good can come of this, it would be better for the both of you. Trust me, I've been in a similar situation a couple of times when I was younger and I always look back and regret not pulling out of the whole thing earlier and sparing myself the tears and anguish.

Hang with your other friends, play games, have fun and live the other aspects of your life out to the fullest instead. Girls will come and go, no sense in clinging to something that is not adhesive... Trust me in that. Eventually, it will get easier to recognize such things and get away before you get too involved, one of the perks of the wisdom that comes with years and having hit the wall a few times before.

Move on for your own sake, make good on your promise to your mom about drinking (kudos for making that choice) and have a good time with your other friends.

Apparently there are a lot of guys out there with broken hearts, can I be the one asking a question this time?

The way the OP describes his feelings for that girl, is it possible to feel that for another girl years later? Or is it one of those once-in-a-lifetime insatiable desire type things?

I'm just as confused when it comes to you guys as you are about girls