| trashleg said: also because if shes, for example, heartbroken when she met you. her receptors are set to "off" by default. so ayone she meets during that phase, shes not interested in at all. also applies if she's been in a happy relationship (note that most people who fall for other people do so because they aren't happy, it makes sense). also also, if you're too persistent in your affections when the above applies^, she'll be switched off probably for good. thats happened to me and i cant think of a better way to descibe it. it really is just like a shut-off switch, again though, thats really just experience on my part. it could be different for the rest of them. |
A couple years back, I was interested in a girl and she became my friend. She already had a boyfriend, so obviously her receptors were "off". About 3 years later being only friend, one night we had a few drinks and she slept at my place, ill save the details. The next day she told me that she wanted to have a relationship with me. So I think that with time, its possible to be interested in someone you wasnt. But, the fact I didnt wanted that kind of relation with her anymore certainly helped. Women needs some challenge ; ). Though, making out with her was a very bad idea, I lost a very good friend. We were both single and I never thought she had this kind of interest for me. Too bad she decided to stop seeing me, but I respect this, and I think that is what GOW should do.
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