You should feel wronged a little bit, but in terms of hindsight, you made the best decisions that you could. You should not have to beat yourself up at all for the decisions you made in terms of trying to move forward with this girl. Odds are, you thought about calling her/texting her/hitting on her quite a bit before you actually performed the action, so you took the best answer with the data you had and went for it.

Now in terms of what to do now...I'd cut ties. You still have feelings, but wean yourself off of her quickly. If you half-step, you are gonna teeter-totter whether staying or leaving. In this case, just leave.

This is getting long, and it sounds dumb, but you should just jot down some things. Situations where she made you uncomfortable, things you did that might have been ineffective, and body languages signs/ subliminal suggestions from her that you felt showed something was wrong. Once you have all your thoughts outlined, you can then list your solutions to each one in case it happens again. Sounds dumb, but I'd rather have my thoughts right there on paper where I can clearly see them rather than running and hiding in my mind.

Solid 6.

That's the best move here and probably what I would do. Actually this whole story sounds like something that would happen to me.

I have to say, that is the LAST ending I would have expected.  I don't think there should be any regrets whatsoever...after 18 months of saying you have a boyfriend and not showing one pic or meeting the guy once, a lot of people (myself included) would probably just think she is lying.

Wow what a story

She sounds crazy!!!!!!!!

Liquid 6.

Definitely a 10.

I had a crazy chick phase. And the sex sucked.

awesome, the dude does know where I live and is planning to make his way to mine, I guess he didn't prove himself enough to her.

7, but 10 if it ends in a physical confrontation