What do you fear the most?

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Tober said:

LegitHyperbole said:

I can't understand this only through loved ones that are already themselves. I'd reckon it must be the highest of anxiety being responsible for your kids.... man I can't even think of it cause it makes me so anxious so the reality must be insane. 

May I ask, is this rough or is there something that makes it less of a soul crushing anxiety? I've heard from some friends that you are given both strength and anxiety in equal measure and something I don't belive at all, that it changes who you are in one istance... you are yourself and then another person the second after birth. Is the latter true to you?

Yes I became a different person. All of a sudden every decision I make in my life takes the kids into account. It's almost like walking on eggs on how I behave and what I say, because I want to be a good role model. Always asking myself what I do, or not do, how will it influence their development. That sounds like a lot of stress, but the rewards are fantastic too.

That's crazy. Do you think this is a chemical reaction or just happenstance from a protective impulse or what? Or perhaps it's some trigger that is pulled from evolution, as like a chemical reaction but one that's made to fire for us for survival? Or maybe something more spiritual?