Thanks for all the suggestions folks. I settled on buying Baldurs Gate three and got loads of free games from PS+ and free upgrades.
Baldurs Gate 3
Demon souls
Returnal
Rachet and Clank Rift apart
Dead Space remake
The witcher 3 next gen patch
Cyberpunk ps5 upgrade
God of war Ragnorok upgrade + vallhalla
Uncharted Legacy of thieves collection
Elden Ring upgrade
Animal Well
The Last of us part 1
The plucky squire
Plus many smaller indie titles I pulled over from ps4.
Gaming is GOOD right now, that should take me well into next year alone, the machine basically paid for itself. Can't wait to try Cyberpunk again and actually be able to enjoy it now, same goes for a replay of The Witcher 3 with better graphics
The games I made the decision to not pursue yet but intend to do so, there are so many smaller titles and ps5 only indies I'm coming across aside from these...
Cyberpunk Phantom Liberty
Rise of the Ronin
Black myth Wukong
Unicorn Overlord
Stellar Blade
Astro bot.
Alan Wake 2
Spiderman 2
He'll divers 2 (if it pops off again)
Dragons dogma 2
Armoured core fires of rubicon
Jedi Survivor