BraLoD said:
zorg1000 said:
Just one of many examples, an 8 year old who spends all his free time playing games on his tablet rather than playing with other kids would fit the bill as well.
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Why?
You decide what the kid preffer is wrong and thus it is mentally sick?
Everybody is free to choose with what they spend their time on.
Do you know if the kid's friends mistreats him? If he dislike what they like to do? If the kid finds them boring?
Nope, just pull the crazy gun, it's easier.
Do you like having sex more than anything else and like to do it often? Crazy bastard, you are unfit for society!
Addiction is one thing, mental disorder is another.
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Addiction is a mental disorder, usually triggered by psycho-social conditions and environmental factors.
An 8 year old is not free to choose what they spend their time on, that's ridiculous, are you seriously suggesting that children be allowed to make their own rules and manage their own time at all points? If your kid spends all day inside, they will lack training and understanding in social interaction, reading and emitting non-verbal signals, cooperative capabilities, interpersonal skills and traits such as empathy and ability to compromise. In addition, these kids often suffer from various symptoms due to lack of exposure to sunlight, one-tracked diet and quite often poor personal hygiene. To understand the implications and consequences of too much time spent with playing games or similar pastimes, you need to see the effects in front of you and how it affects them down the line. If the mentioned 8 year old only wants to eat sausages and fries and drink Coke all day and change his clothes every other week, is he still better off deciding for himself that his preferences are okay? He doesn't want to see the doctor, go to the dentist, go to school? Stay up late at night? All okay, right, because we can't possible decide for him?
Kids, especially boys, with neuropsychiatric disorders are hit the worst by this form of addiction and it becomes really complicated.
A few other points; no is calling anyone crazy, absolutely no one. As for sex, we are biologically and psychologically made for sex and intimacy, the same cannot be said for substance use/abuse or being glued to screens and games. I've spent the last five years working in youth psychiatry, specializing in neuropsychiatry and kids with Asperger, ADHD, Tourettes and OCD, and about half of our kids are addicted to games and gaming, if their access to games is limited, they often spend their time watching other people play on youtube or twitch. None of them are crazy, but they have major issues for sure. I'm currently educating myself on this particular subject and intend to start doing consulting on videogame addiction across my two home countries, it's sorely needed. I'm also going to focus on smaller children and parent synergy where parents are unwittingly damaging their infant/toddler attachment period and normalizing screens and devices as a means of distraction and stimulation rather than physically doing it themselves, the latest reports from child psychology is gloomy stuff, the prescription of antidepressants to children under 1 year of age has exploded in the past decade or so.