How's everyone tonight? Feels dead so I thought I'd put in some more personal shizz here. 

Anyway, doing it. Yeah, sex. Alright, I'mma be straight with y'all: I'm pretty asexual. My desire for sex is very very minimal. And that can be an issue and will be one soon. 

So... in the past I've had gf's who wanted sex and my lack of wanting to do it, obviously, disappointed them. Well now I'm with the one I think I'll marry someday and she wants to have sex. She's wanted it for a while, months, and is getting frusterated with my lack of... well me doing it XD she's never had sex herself and nor have I -me for more obvious reasons. But I do have a few worries before I do that

 1. I want to make sure I don't get her pregnant. Her and I cannot support a kid just yet and the worst fear I have is getting her pregnant and dealing with that. I mean I know condoms are supposed to work but they don't always... and I'd want her to take a pill but she's still financially dependent on her parents so they'd know if she bought any. Most might say it's not a big issue but from what she tells me her family is extremely fertile -pretty much always have kids on their first try. 

2. I honestly don't know if I'll even do it right XD I don't watch porn or anything so idk how this shit is supposed to work!

3. Idk how the hell you put on a condom. I'm sure there's instructions in the box, but still

4. I'm afraid I won't care for it and it'll be a chore. Some of you may be callin' bullshit on this one. But I really have low desire for sex. I'm fucking weird XD plus it's harder to fake an orgasm when youre a guy x.x

Most of your questions can be answered with google (I'd recommend a bit of research haha).

There's definitely a spectrum when it comes to asexuality, ranging from outright lack of attraction to anyone, to just being less interested in sex or even kissing.

This certainly may not play a factor at all for you, but here's something I discovered... I know I personally was rather like what you're describing well into my 20's, only really outright desiring sex when intoxicated, but I discovered I had exceedingly low testosterone levels. Once I'd dealt with that and my depression as well, I suddenly found those desires emerge to the extent that they actually motivate me. I'm still well shy of many guys my age, but whereas kissing once seemed almost weird and sex was just "ok", they both feel natural and worthwhile now. Might want to look into that just in case.

Otherwise, if you're comfortable with her and you think she has some experience, just tell her you're inexperienced and ask her to take the lead. Women really don't mind when you do that as they tend to direct the action regardless lol

Have you guys...run the bases at all? It's a good place to start and it avoids all the pregnancy issues.

Run the bases? Like kiss, cuddle, touch each other, etc? Yeah we have. Kissing and cuddling isnt really an issue 

I'm more talking about handies and oral...

Oral no. Ive tried giving her a hand job. Couldnt do it the way she likes it though

I'd suggesting working on that for a while. Just try to get her to give good feedback and guide you. I think its also fundamental to foreplay so its a bit of a necessity either way. 

You're probably right. We should work on that before sex. I'll definitely take that advice

Most questions here can be answered with a Google search! XD but this is a tight nit community so I like knowing peoples' opinions here, honestly. 

As for my range... it's... hmm medium? Bad answer, I know. I find people attractive and am completely fine with kissing, making out, cuddling, etc. It's just sex itself I have no urge for. 

It's possible I have low testosterone. I've always suspected I might 

Damn VGChartz. It didnt load on mobile!

You. Are an interesting cat.