Most of your questions can be answered with google (I'd recommend a bit of research haha).
There's definitely a spectrum when it comes to asexuality, ranging from outright lack of attraction to anyone, to just being less interested in sex or even kissing.
This certainly may not play a factor at all for you, but here's something I discovered... I know I personally was rather like what you're describing well into my 20's, only really outright desiring sex when intoxicated, but I discovered I had exceedingly low testosterone levels. Once I'd dealt with that and my depression as well, I suddenly found those desires emerge to the extent that they actually motivate me. I'm still well shy of many guys my age, but whereas kissing once seemed almost weird and sex was just "ok", they both feel natural and worthwhile now. Might want to look into that just in case.
Otherwise, if you're comfortable with her and you think she has some experience, just tell her you're inexperienced and ask her to take the lead. Women really don't mind when you do that as they tend to direct the action regardless lol
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