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ArchangelMadzz said:
I feel like this situation would be much better if the kid was 100% mine and lived with me and she had nothing to do with it.

I like her as a friend but I don't trust her to raise a child.

Raising a child is difficult enough when you have everything going for it, maintaining the couple through it even more difficult, from what I see you are not that fond of the lady, my advice to you convince her to abort.

She will get custody of the chid & will start making your life a hell, blackmailing you with the child as leverage.

In the end you will be extremely unhappy, the kid will not be well raised, everybody loses!

Don't let her understand that you will stand by her if she decides to have the baby, because then she will definitly not abort & use it to chain you by her side.

I may sound a bit harsh, but this is not fairy tale issue, life is harsh, I have plenty of experience with life, over 40 here & seen what people really are & how they behave. Believe me, you will thank me a million times in ten years!!!



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ArchangelMadzz said:
I feel like this situation would be much better if the kid was 100% mine and lived with me and she had nothing to do with it.

I like her as a friend but I don't trust her to raise a child.

Unless you've inherited a small fortune, it would ruin your financial future to not have someone to look after the baby, home, etc. while you study and then work.  A partner, even unemployed, is worth $1 million easily if you have kids.



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So lets talk names. I like Emily for girls, maybe John or Paul for a boy.
And, well, I pray the Lord help you in this new chapter of your life. Yes, it is hard, but most thing that are worthy are hard.



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Congrats. You do the do, you gotta raise it too.

Either that or terminate the pregnancy...



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WagnerPaiva said:
So lets talk names. I like Emily for girls, maybe John or Paul for a boy.
And, well, I pray the Lord help you in this new chapter of your life. Yes, it is hard, but most thing that are worthy are hard.

Right, I have a pit full of crocodiles for you to jump in & I'll say to you "Survive in here" because "Yes, it is hard, but most things that are worthy are hard" so since it's hard it must be worthy to you to jump in my pit full of crocodiles I guess...

Empty, dull, cute phrases like this one are not good counsel, just marketing to lure fragile people. This a great exemple of sophism you've got there!!!



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As a father of four, one child is a walk in the park, lol. Unless you are a completely incompetent or just plain lazy as unfortunately, some people are. Having a child will change your life for the better. It's scary up until the point of birth but when you're holding a newborn in your arms, there's no greater feeling.



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