ArchangelMadzz said: I feel like this situation would be much better if the kid was 100% mine and lived with me and she had nothing to do with it. I like her as a friend but I don't trust her to raise a child. |
Raising a child is difficult enough when you have everything going for it, maintaining the couple through it even more difficult, from what I see you are not that fond of the lady, my advice to you convince her to abort.
She will get custody of the chid & will start making your life a hell, blackmailing you with the child as leverage.
In the end you will be extremely unhappy, the kid will not be well raised, everybody loses!
Don't let her understand that you will stand by her if she decides to have the baby, because then she will definitly not abort & use it to chain you by her side.
I may sound a bit harsh, but this is not fairy tale issue, life is harsh, I have plenty of experience with life, over 40 here & seen what people really are & how they behave. Believe me, you will thank me a million times in ten years!!!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n29CicBxZuw
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