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DamnTastic on 27 May 2016

Don't forget to get a prenup.



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burninmylight on 27 May 2016
XanderXT said:
sabvre42 said:

At least you got to test drive the car before the purchase...

Even as a Christian, I think waiting for marriage to have sex is a bad idea. Some people just are not sexually compatible. I literally got dumped once cause my cock was too large for her, and after every time we did it... she would hurt like a freshly turned non virgin.

If your a Christian, I'm pretty sure you believe that God made you and whoever your doing the hanky panky with were literally made for each other.

Just because you're a Christian doesn't mean you believe that life is a fairy tale.



burninmylight on 27 May 2016
Aeolus451 said:
outlawauron said:

It's a pretty common thought. That God has picked out someone that's made for you two to become one. Now, that doesn't explicitly mean sex, but sex is designed to be pleasurable so the person meant for you has to have some compatibility?

It's common but incorrect for the most part. It just wishful thinking that god made someone to be your other half. No where in the bible does it mention that we get a mate hand picked by god. You also have to consider that our souls are immortal so we might not meet anyone while alive.  

God choosing for us defeats the whole point of giving us free will. We're supposed to choose our mate(s) and figure out on you own if you're compatible or not. It's no different than having to make any other choice in life. 

Sex is a very important part of compatibility. 

I'm not christian or religious. I just read the bible while trying to maintain a objective point of view. 

XanderXT said:

Uh, I never said that first loves are who your destined with though. And your belief doesn't really seem like something a Christian would say. I mean, don't they say that they are God's chosen people and stuff? And that Sex is good in the context of marraige because it's for making babies?

Well I wouldn't know. My friend who's a Christian says that there is a woman for you in the world, because when God created you, he also created for you a partner. Or something like that.

That's just a bit of romanticism.

This is the most reasonable and rational post about Christianity I've ever read from someone who isn't Christian.



burninmylight on 27 May 2016
sabvre42 said:
barneystinson69 said:

Then I guess its time for her to "leavy leavy". This probably won't be the last time she'll ask you to do something for her, and it'll get bigger and bigger over time.

TBH... we could be telling him that his fiance is selfish and the OP may have been dating the gf for like 8 years....

Thank you. Let's try to see things from her POV and get the whole story before we start calling her the b-word and burn her at the stake, please y'all?



Locknuts on 27 May 2016

Sounds like bullshit to me. Are you actually planning on marrying this girl eventually?



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burninmylight on 27 May 2016
Neodegenerate said:
sabvre42 said:

Hes right. Cause as soon as you get married you get less sex.  (I'm married)

Nothing turns a woman off more than a wedding ring.

Ain't that some hard truth you learn after the fact.

Pssh, you don't even need the hardware. Just try living with her for a couple of years. By that point, you're pretty much married and yolked.

I was engaged once and lived with a woman for two and a half years. Like Chris Rock said, the only thing that stopped us from killing each other was an episode of CSI.

After that experience, I won't let my girlfriends now stay over an entire weekend, yet the skiggity-skat stays right on track.



tinfamous12 on 27 May 2016

She probably doesn't wanna give you any because you call it hanky panky.



StarOcean on 27 May 2016
TruckOSaurus said:
StarOcean said:
I wouldn't do "hanky panky" before marriage either to be honest if the one isn't patient enough to wait, then they ain't getting it XD

Never buy a car without a test drive.

Eh, personally I don't care for sex at all so it's not something that matters to me. I know, it's a sin to not care about sex, but I'd rather not do it at all when possible



theprof00 on 27 May 2016

Let's start a go-fund me for Spurge to stop living in sin



Azuren on 27 May 2016

Withholding sex for anything is always an irresponsible move. Either the guys caves, no matter how good or bad the idea may be, or there is a split.

It's just selfish, really.



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