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When you sleep with them and they are still there in the morning.



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lol ask them?



super_etecoon said:
Once you figure out if they are flirting with you....there is still the harder question: are they flirting with you as a friend, or as someone who wants to take it further. There are no easy answers to these questions...only trial and error.

What he said.  Flirting back can be a good way to test the waters, but I have firsthand experience that many girls will flirt with you even if they are not interested in you.

Its just the way men and women's brains work.  Men essentially would sleep with any woman who gives them the time of day.  Women are not immediately thinking about that.

 



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super_etecoon said:
Once you figure out if they are flirting with you....there is still the harder question: are they flirting with you as a friend, or as someone who wants to take it further. There are no easy answers to these questions...only trial and error.

I can attest to this. A friend and I had been flirting back and forth for a while, so one day I just asked her out.........it was pretty awkward for a little while, when she said she only thought of me as a friend. But things are back to normal.

So, go ahead and ask her out. If she is your friend, you'll should be able to power through, if she's not interested........and if she is, good for you.



Hawkeye said:
What if somebody is laughing 40-70% of the time they are talking to you, touching their hair, leaning forward, touching your arm when the laugh, and listening to most of what you say even if you say stupid stuff? Could that be considered being friendly? Or flirting?

 

sounds like she is...but just cos someone flirts doesn't necessarily mean they're into dating you.



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There's no way to know without creating a little bit of akwardness.
But there's a funny way of dealing with it. Ignore it. If she is actualy flirting with you, it'll result on some hillarious behavior.



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