its not hard, its b/c he is on here where the only girls he can meet (save NFG and lolita) are 34 year old virgin men...
i mean right now he s only 20 years away from being the next Gballzack

its not hard, its b/c he is on here where the only girls he can meet (save NFG and lolita) are 34 year old virgin men...
i mean right now he s only 20 years away from being the next Gballzack

DMJ is a virgin because he's only a collection of electrons that haunt the internet and VGC in particular.
Last I check, electrons can't have sex.

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| TruckOSaurus said: Sex is an important part of a relationship and even if you are perfectly compatible on every other aspect on your relationship with someone it is possible that you don't match sexually (difference in sex drive, different turn on, etc...) If that's the case you're stuck in a marriage that is destined to fail. So what I'm saying is that going around having sex with any random girl is not ideal but waiting until you're bound by law to someone before discovering how you "match" in bed ain't ideal either. |
Interestingly enough, waiting is allowing us to understand what eachother want, even without sex. If you focus on the mental and emotional aspects of a relationship first, you are bound to understand what the other one wants in the bedroom before actually doing the deed.
I mean, being with someone for 5 years, you *know* what that person is going to be like in bed, because you know litterally everything else about them, so understanding that is a mere extention of the fact you already know everything else about that person. It's a very interesting way to go about it, but it really works.
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| DMeisterJ said: I like this thread ^_^ |
Thanks. Took me forever to figure out a good topic. lmao
Roma said:
Well some people wait becouse they might feel that it will be empty if they have sex with no real love involved. I waited a long time and then when I ended up in bed guess what… it felt really empty. It's interesting though how we all work
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Well of course you felt empty afterwards. You know you do lose something at the end of sex.
| mrstickball said: Good God.
(on the left, BTW). The picture is just missing her amazing rack and rest of body, BTW. Do I want to sex her badly? Heck yes. Do I have every right to, given the way the logic on the site is? I did a long time ago. Yet for all of the reasons that some would gladly give that "I should", the fact is, waiting is the smartest, best thing you can ever do. It allows you to explore so many other areas of a relationship that wind up getting choked off when all your looking for is a piece of pussy. I'm 23 (just turned it a few days ago), and am glaringly proud of making it this far. For all we've waited, she and I have seen (from our friends): 3 divorces 2 single moms that have no means of supporting their child outside of minimum wage Plenty of mental (and maybe even physical) spousal/relational abuse due to shacking up with someone that they didn't really know. And that's just for starters. Maybe it's just me, but I don't want that. I have a fiancee that is just about 2 steps away from heaven. She plays video games, demands Taco Bell over Olive Garden, forces me to preorder her games like Silent Hill, is a great JRPG buddy (my entire review of Lost Odyssey is based on her game time of it), and of course is the best friend I could ask for, and a wonderful companion. Guess what? A lot of that developed because of our long term, no-sex-till-marriage decision(s) that are forcing us to explore each others' minds and emotions before the bodies, and that's the way its should be. If you want to have casual sex, I can't stop you. But for my situation, I have an amazing person that I really feel is worth waiting for. And if you can't find someone that's worth waiting for something so intimate and precious...Then...I guess the question is how good is your relationship?
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Well if it worths the wait, the feel free.... but when all you can get is a 5 tons elephant... bealive me, you dont want to spend 5 years with her :P
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| mrstickball said: Good God.
(on the left, BTW). The picture is just missing her amazing rack and rest of body, BTW. Do I want to sex her badly? Heck yes. Do I have every right to, given the way the logic on the site is? I did a long time ago. Yet for all of the reasons that some would gladly give that "I should", the fact is, waiting is the smartest, best thing you can ever do. It allows you to explore so many other areas of a relationship that wind up getting choked off when all your looking for is a piece of pussy. I'm 23 (just turned it a few days ago), and am glaringly proud of making it this far. For all we've waited, she and I have seen (from our friends): 3 divorces 2 single moms that have no means of supporting their child outside of minimum wage Plenty of mental (and maybe even physical) spousal/relational abuse due to shacking up with someone that they didn't really know. And that's just for starters. Maybe it's just me, but I don't want that. I have a fiancee that is just about 2 steps away from heaven. She plays video games, demands Taco Bell over Olive Garden, forces me to preorder her games like Silent Hill, is a great JRPG buddy (my entire review of Lost Odyssey is based on her game time of it), and of course is the best friend I could ask for, and a wonderful companion. Guess what? A lot of that developed because of our long term, no-sex-till-marriage decision(s) that are forcing us to explore each others' minds and emotions before the bodies, and that's the way its should be. If you want to have casual sex, I can't stop you. But for my situation, I have an amazing person that I really feel is worth waiting for. And if you can't find someone that's worth waiting for something so intimate and precious...Then...I guess the question is how good is your relationship?
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seconded.
| mrstickball said: Good God.
(on the left, BTW). The picture is just missing her amazing rack and rest of body, BTW. Do I want to sex her badly? Heck yes. Do I have every right to, given the way the logic on the site is? I did a long time ago. Yet for all of the reasons that some would gladly give that "I should", the fact is, waiting is the smartest, best thing you can ever do. It allows you to explore so many other areas of a relationship that wind up getting choked off when all your looking for is a piece of pussy. I'm 23 (just turned it a few days ago), and am glaringly proud of making it this far. For all we've waited, she and I have seen (from our friends): 3 divorces 2 single moms that have no means of supporting their child outside of minimum wage Plenty of mental (and maybe even physical) spousal/relational abuse due to shacking up with someone that they didn't really know. And that's just for starters. Maybe it's just me, but I don't want that. I have a fiancee that is just about 2 steps away from heaven. She plays video games, demands Taco Bell over Olive Garden, forces me to preorder her games like Silent Hill, is a great JRPG buddy (my entire review of Lost Odyssey is based on her game time of it), and of course is the best friend I could ask for, and a wonderful companion. Guess what? A lot of that developed because of our long term, no-sex-till-marriage decision(s) that are forcing us to explore each others' minds and emotions before the bodies, and that's the way its should be. If you want to have casual sex, I can't stop you. But for my situation, I have an amazing person that I really feel is worth waiting for. And if you can't find someone that's worth waiting for something so intimate and precious...Then...I guess the question is how good is your relationship?
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In all honesty, I give you total props for what you are doing, its extremely honorable and something few men can do these days
All in all tho... imo, Sex will only hurt a relationship if neither are ready or the two don't actually have deep feelings for each other, in your case, it really can't do anything but enhance the relationship, having the ultimate intimate moment, 5 years is a long time, and if your still with her you will always be with her, you two are ready imo, then again since you two are engaged im sure the time will come soon anywhos (This is coming from a fellow virgin who knows way too much about relationships haha)
On a side note, NOT having sex in a relationship (Primarily when two people have been together for an elongated amount of time) can actually cause some serious, even fatal stress related issues, yes people have actually died from lack of sex, because when the time comes, especially if it is someone you have deeply cared for, in some cases the heart cannot handle the stress and emotional "overload" and a heart attack can actually occur (Believe it or not this is actually true) resulting in death. Haha so heres a tip, when the time comes, take it VERY slow :P haha, wouldn't want you croaking on us.
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| RolStoppable said: God, this thread is terrible. If you are going to steal my "I figured out why..." idea, at least do it with some sense for quality. You are also missing the essential "It makes perfect sense." line at the end of the OP. I demand a ban. |
go not everything resolves around you
lord ego much blahbklha bla?
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