I figured out why DMeisterJ is a virgin

[mrstickball]

TruckOSaurus said:

Sex is an important part of a relationship and even if you are perfectly compatible on every other aspect on your relationship with someone it is possible that you don't match sexually (difference in sex drive, different turn on, etc...) If that's the case you're stuck in a marriage that is destined to fail.

So what I'm saying is that going around having sex with any random girl is not ideal but waiting until you're bound by law to someone before discovering how you "match" in bed ain't ideal either.

Interestingly enough, waiting is allowing us to understand what eachother want, even without sex. If you focus on the mental and emotional aspects of a relationship first, you are bound to understand what the other one wants in the bedroom before actually doing the deed.

I mean, being with someone for 5 years, you *know* what that person is going to be like in bed, because you know litterally everything else about them, so understanding that is a mere extention of the fact you already know everything else about that person. It's a very interesting way to go about it, but it really works.