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curl-6 said:
Verter said:

Totally this.

Besides, I have the feeling that I'm doing with my life now what I should've been doing years ago, and what I did years ago I should've done it before, and so on. It's like being in a race against myself, just running and running, but always knowing that I'll never catch up.

I can definitely relate to that. I was developmentally delayed so I got around to a lot of things later in life than most people; even as an adult I didn't have my first relationship/girlfriend until I was 23, whereas all my peers were dating in high school.

My situation is definitely worst. I'm 28 and never had a girlfriend, while my best friend is 25 and has a four year old son.



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Alex_The_Hedgehog said:
curl-6 said:

I can definitely relate to that. I was developmentally delayed so I got around to a lot of things later in life than most people; even as an adult I didn't have my first relationship/girlfriend until I was 23, whereas all my peers were dating in high school.

My situation is definitely worst. I'm 28 and never had a girlfriend, while my best friend is 25 and has a four year old son.

Sorry man, I know it sucks.

When I was 20-22 at University and everyone but me was dating 'n' mating, I definitely felt left out and like there was something terribly wrong with me. If you'd asked me when I was 22 I was starting to think I'd never get to date or have sex in my life, it was all starting to feel totally hopeless.

I'm afraid the only advice I can give is to put yourself out there as much as possible and not give up.



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curl-6 said:

I can definitely relate to that. I was developmentally delayed so I got around to a lot of things later in life than most people; even as an adult I didn't have my first relationship/girlfriend until I was 23, whereas all my peers were dating in high school.

21 was my age, but I had a massive dose of luck back then, and that relationship was over almost even before it started. Hard for me to really click with people, and vice versa.



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Verter said:
curl-6 said:

I can definitely relate to that. I was developmentally delayed so I got around to a lot of things later in life than most people; even as an adult I didn't have my first relationship/girlfriend until I was 23, whereas all my peers were dating in high school.

21 was my age, but I had a massive dose of luck back then, and that relationship was over almost even before it started. Hard for me to really click with people, and vice versa.

Yeah I was incredibly lucky as well, to have found the person that I did. It didn't last, but it was mostly great while it did. I suppose it wasn't just luck though in retrospect, I wouldn't have met her if I hadn't gone out to a party even though I find them stressful.

And yeah it's hard for me to click with people as well, it takes an especially accepting person to be okay with my general weirdness haha



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curl-6 said:

Yeah I was incredibly lucky as well, to have found the person that I did. It didn't last, but it was mostly great while it did. I suppose it wasn't just luck though in retrospect, I wouldn't have met her if I hadn't gone out to a party even though I find them stressful.

And yeah it's hard for me to click with people as well, it takes an especially accepting person to be okay with my general weirdness haha

Same about the parties. But in my case, a random girl added me as a friend on a Facebook-like social network without knowing me at all or having any friends in common, just because she liked my nickname. And then she started flirting with me. I wonder why something like that wouldn't work. =P

Bold: spot on lol.



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Verter said:
curl-6 said:

Yeah I was incredibly lucky as well, to have found the person that I did. It didn't last, but it was mostly great while it did. I suppose it wasn't just luck though in retrospect, I wouldn't have met her if I hadn't gone out to a party even though I find them stressful.

And yeah it's hard for me to click with people as well, it takes an especially accepting person to be okay with my general weirdness haha

Same about the parties. But in my case, a random girl added me as a friend on a Facebook-like social network without knowing me at all or having any friends in common, just because she liked my nickname. And then she started flirting with me. I wonder why something like that wouldn't work. =P

Bold: spot on lol.

Yeah it ain't easy being weird haha. Not gonna lie, there's been many a time I wished I was more "normal" but then I wouldn't be me, and after many years I've finally reached the point where I kinda like who I am.

It was my first gf's birthday when I met her, she normally doesn't party but went out to the University bar to celebrate her 26th. We danced and then I offered to walk her home; we didn't do anything more than kiss that night but I did get her number and we went from there. We were together 18 months and it was mostly amazing but my inexperience kinda messed it up in the end. Oh well, you live and you learn.



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