The cold hard reality is there are many men that have absolutely no chance in regards to dating for a number of reasons. Reasons are not excuses, if the women reject them, the women reject them. Many guys will be rejected by women for a number of reason beyond our control. We will have to live out our lives on our own and just accept the fact that women do not want us. Changes like take a shower, wear better clothes or be more positive and other nonsense advice do not change a thing. Some of the guys that attract women are criminals, wife bashers and total scum bags and are better than all guys that never attract women. I believe luck plays a huge role in whether men attract women or not!

I used to follow the PUA scene religiously when I was 19-22. Some of it was indeed very helpful, though a lot of it was kinda dodgy in the sense that if I acted as they recommend in this day and age I might very likely end up getting charged with harassment. 

I don't think anyone that I have read has said they a ladies man pick up as many chicks as they want each week, so why are you struggling.

What everyone is saying you can't run before you walk. For most of us it is difficult at first, but you need to get out of your comfort zone and stop being negative about it.  

You learn to get more comfortable doing certain things you don' like doing

That is not true for everyone, maybe for most people with the same mindset but the OP is an autist and being social will always give him stress to the point it can get unbearable and he might fall into depression or it might trigger panic attacks. Autism has a very wide spectrum ofcourse but its unlogical to give advice when we do not know this person and ofcourse it is also a bit unlogical for him to start this thread but i reckon he kinda wanted to vent.

But it's sweet that people do want to give him advice so yeah the intention is good.

An incel is an "involuntarily celibate" male who aligns himself with a male supremacist notion that he is owed sex from beautiful women, usually virgins.  A primer is a tool used to teach a concept.  It can also be used to indoctrinate.  A thread is what we are currently posting in.

I didn't ask what an incel was. Just wasn't familiar with the primer reference.

It is all about the clothes and style that makes a man look cool and popular! Adidas Yeezy Boost 350v2 are they the gangster shoes that will give me more street credibility? Shoes bought for 1000 quid to look like tough gangster guy, a thick gold chain, Rolex watch, designer clothes. Gangster or not gangster?

Honestly, everytime I see an Incel thread on some forum, I think on notifying the police. Terrorist attacks have been born from all this narcissism and defeatism combined.

Three way tie between "double standards", "does not conform to societal ideals" (I am pretty much a reversal of the gender conventions and an old girlfriend I had to leave pretty much means every woman will feel like a chore now) and that I simply don't need one. Why? We know the marriage rubbish is bollocks unless you're not healthy as it is, and I am pretty capable of adopting and caring for a child on my own. If I want to have children, I think it's better than bringing more people into an overcrowded society. If I want company, I know at least two friends who are thinking the same way and have gone girl free for like 8 years with no hassle (they still use hookers and the like, I don't as I am not an slave to my hormones) and I also want to send a message of disapproval to society. This does wonderfully at showing everyone MGTOWs are not woman-haters (can't speak for all) and that men's raison d'etre isn't the existence of women.

In short: Because I don't want, need or am happy to spend time with one, save for platonic relationships of course.

Because I'm a legendary idiot.

I prefer solitude.

It's addictive.

Also because I'm not exactly an epitome human.

I've got a lot of flaws. And some of them are hard to wade past.

I'm insane. A wildcard. I do my thing. Consequences I can manage. But I'm pretty sure other people prefer "safe".

https://www.quora.com/Why-do-you-think-youll-be-forever-alone

Here’s what I don’t have;

a social life

social skills

friends

enthusiasm

interest in modern life

ambition

Here is what I have:

Me and this moment

Once I learn to live peacefully in the moment, the excessive worry of being alone fades. And maybe that’s why people think I am weird, and maybe by virtue of my own eccentricity, I will forever be alone.