True.

It sounds like she was self destructive (after the news she got).....
maybe she felt you deserved better than her, and a chance to have a "normal" life.

Its sad you couldnt work things out with her instead.

Thanks for writeing that, faith in humanity kinda restored.

It's designed to fuck the father. I have a leg up in that my wife is certified mentally ill, but even that will only get me so far.

Are you in the US or Spain? Because those are two of the most fucked up legal systems when it come to custody that I know of.

I know a guy whose mother is a known addict without a job, has a mental disorder and tried to run her own son over with a car, while the dad has a steady job, was an abuse victim in the marriage and is an overall good guy. She got the kids. And the house. And the car. And significant spousal and child support. I'm not in favor of kids going outomatically to the man like in the 50s either, but COME ON!

I hope you can get at least shared custody. And I hope your child/ren come out of the mess alright. Good luck!

I broke up with a guy a few days ago, but it was after two dates.

I would say in the mid 20s relationships become more substantive.

Never say Never.

OP aint got shit on my Christmas.

But I do wish you all the condolences after your break up, but it could be far far worse mate. And as many have said and will no doubt say to you over time "it's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all"

You monster, I'll bet he already had a tattoo of GentlemanJasmine down his torso!!

I've been here longer than you and no it wasn't like this originally. Like most forums they become this way eventually. Every time I come on here now there's someone whining about his life that has nothing to do with anybody here or what the site is about.

I feel quite bad as I broke up for superfical reasons (not good in bed) but I think he trully liked or loved me...

I decided I wont date anymore unless I am a bit more serious.